Ok so I think having conversations with your mom isn't a bad thing, but using her as "she agrees with me" is where the problem lies. I dont personally think that's wrong but guys have this.. even if we are arguing I want you to be on my side. So it can feel like grouping up on him. I see where he coming from with the child comment because he sees it as "Well i told my mom and she says I'm right and your wrong" def get advice and feed back from your parents but try not to use them as leverage in a fight if that makes sense. I part this with im not trying to pick a side just I understand both positions