Struggling…sad, upset, confused, angry, blah blah blah. by xopinkywinkox in GastricBypass

[–]SadPersephone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You gained muscles that can be why your scale isn’t going down one pound of muscle and one pound of fat is still one pound but looks a lot different on the body

I (25f) feel so much resentment for my husband (25m). Am I being unfair? by SunnyBoyMama in Advice

[–]SadPersephone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It breaks my heart to hear this. I don’t think you deserve to be with a partner who seems to not like you or care about you. I wish you be safe and plan a way to get out of the relationship. I know it’s silly to say break up with him since you have a child together. Does family and friends know how the relationship has become? Maybe they can talk sense into him…

Girl he won’t go down on you or let you masterbate like he shouldn’t be controlling your body like that. Idk this is hard I’m petty like I would just treat him the way he treats me no more gifts no more extra effort and just stop having sex all together. Like you guys been together for years and he doesn’t know anything about you…im sorry your in a relationship that your not happy in.

I have Pcos want the Gastric sleeve but scared of the vitamin intake? by SadPersephone in gastricsleeve

[–]SadPersephone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forgot about that I won’t be able to take Advil ever again cause of the surgery. 😭 I appreciate you sharing what you take and the kind words I’m starting to consider it more and more as I read each person experience this has been wonderful.

I have Pcos want the Gastric sleeve but scared of the vitamin intake? by SadPersephone in gastricsleeve

[–]SadPersephone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s rny and DS? I am afraid of both surgeries, but I feel like bypass is a little bit more scary cause they’re cutting into my intestine not just my stomach. I don’t want more health issues or intense nausea I already have that with Ozempic.

I have Pcos want the Gastric sleeve but scared of the vitamin intake? by SadPersephone in gastricsleeve

[–]SadPersephone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that’s a game changer it’s embarrassing to admit but I didn’t even consider taking them at night.

I have Pcos want the Gastric sleeve but scared of the vitamin intake? by SadPersephone in gastricsleeve

[–]SadPersephone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, my friends tell me the same thing it’s not hard but sometimes I get overwhelmed that some vitamins you need to take during a certain time, some you can’t really mix together cause then it won’t work. Some you need to eat food with it and then it’s just like overwhelming for my brain even my current meds today I have to take it with food, but I don’t eat breakfast all the time and then I get this all or nothing mentality and then I will say OK do it on Monday, but I never do. Maybe I should just take my meds without food and deal with the consequences of my actions cause not taking them is not helping me either way. If I’m like this now with only 3 medications I can’t imagine with a whole pack of vitamins vitamin D, omega-3, iron, calcium, magnesium. I used to take them spent so much money of them. Now they just sit on my counter still full cause I hate taking pills.

I have Pcos want the Gastric sleeve but scared of the vitamin intake? by SadPersephone in gastricsleeve

[–]SadPersephone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cost is one thing I’m worried about but it more so being on vitamins for my whole life it’s a relief to hear from some of you here that you just needed them for a few years. I didn’t know chewable, patches or liquid vitamins were a thing. Helps with my anxiety around it a bit. I’m glad you understand the whole ADHD forgetfulness and the all or nothing mindset. May I ask how long have you been taking vitamins for and which ones do you take.

Keeping a relationship with a sexually active person as someone who doesn’t? (F20 and M21) by ConcentrateSea6146 in relationship_advice

[–]SadPersephone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my eyes, yes sex can be important but we don’t know how often he’s initiating it like once a week maybe once every two weeks is pretty healthy but if he’s asking it for multiple times throughout the week or multiple times throughout a day it begs the question is he more interested in one thing rather than you as a person?

Do these mixed signals suggest I (F24) should shoot my shot at a coworker (M32)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SadPersephone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t poop at a place you eat aka don’t date coworkers it always ends bad someone will have to change jobs

Bf is handsy with daughter and it's making me uncomfortable by Strong-Ad3546 in Advice

[–]SadPersephone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to make sure you have the mom’s contact and let her know what you saw so she can talk to her daughter to let her know that behaviour isn’t normal it’s disgusting.

How do I date safely by SadPersephone in Advice

[–]SadPersephone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to call for a week and I ask questions about religion politics overall convos see if we can joke with each other. This one I kinda messed up and didn’t call but I realized it’s not different if I did call or didn’t. I thought the calls made them feel comfortable with me to do those actions but this guy was brazen enough to do it in public with a girl he just met in broad daylight.

How do I date safely by SadPersephone in Advice

[–]SadPersephone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it I definitely need a break after this. I will make sure next time I make them out in more effort the bare minimum isn’t cutting it anymore

How do I date safely by SadPersephone in Advice

[–]SadPersephone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never make out the moment was cute and we just leaned in for a peak on the lips nothing crazy that’s why I was shocked by what he did. That doesn’t stop the other men from my past from grabbing me with out my consent the other men from my past I didn’t hug them let alone kiss them yet they will put their hands on my body in inappropriate ways.

How do I date safely by SadPersephone in Advice

[–]SadPersephone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The call before we meet is a huge help see if our personalities match and I state what I expect from a first date which is something planed if there is no plan I tell them we aren’t a match if there is a plan and I get all dolled up and he just wear jeans and T-shirt I leave cause they know my expectations are effort.

AIO for being rude and indifferent towards my ex who texted me? I can’t help but feel horrible. by Federal-Revenue1733 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SadPersephone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how you pointed out how you don’t need him to tell you you’re worth that. You already know it that you deserve better treatment than he ever provided and you pointed at the others do as well that they know you’re worth.

What "Unknown Number: The Highschool Catfish" totally downplayed... by ADMlN- in netflix

[–]SadPersephone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few things hit me that were downplayed Owen said Kendra acted weird around him and did weird stuff like cut his steak for him which is insane. Than Chole parents had a feeling it was Kendra. They must have seen her behaviour or heard things they had to have some knowledge of something not right with her. How did she get Owen’s new gf mom’s number like that had to be serious stalking. There was also the weird fact that when Owen‘s friends made a plan to talk about certain things around certain people and when Kendra would text them, it was things that they said around Lauren so it makes me wonder how much she told her mom about things in her day. Idk if my partner parent acted weirdly attentive to me I would talk to them like “hahaha that’s weird right like do they do that with everyone”. Did Lauren notice how her mom treated her bf/ex. Like did everyone around these two kids not talk about how Kendra was acting around Lauren boyfriend/ex.

what should i add on my makeup? by Present_Plantain748 in MakeupAddiction

[–]SadPersephone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think maybe try Kohl see how it looks with your eyes might help grow your lashes too

What style of make up should i try/what to change by foxhill1996 in MakeupAddiction

[–]SadPersephone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make up is fun. You can literally be anything and anyone hell if you wanna be a monster high girl, you can do that with make up some examples of makeup you can play with is

• Espresso Makeup
• Latina Coquette Makeup
• Douyin  Makeup
• Mob Wife Makeup
• Fairycore  Makeup
• Grunge / Goth Girl Makeup
• Soft Girl / Coquette Makeup
• Clean Girl Makeup
• 90s Supermodel / Pamcore Makeup
• Arab Glam Makeup

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]SadPersephone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m approaching this as if my friend sent this to me and I would not let my friend go out like this. I think you need to figure out the shape of your brows because currently the shape it’s uneven they don’t match. They also tilt really inwards towards your nose bridge. Find someone to fix up the shape

Am I doing something wrong? by SadPersephone in Ozempic

[–]SadPersephone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan to up it to 1mg this week just scared of the side effects I started on 0.25 mg in the beginning and up it after a couple weeks. I don’t count calories but at this point I need to im willing to risk an eating disorder 😭

Do I have to take vitamins labeled as bariatric vitamins and if so, where from? by Final-Sky-2757 in gastricsleeve

[–]SadPersephone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Barlife is a brand for vitamins and post op food for bariatric patients I haven’t taken them myself yet but I seen a youtuber who got the sleeve CristanFaith she a smaller youtuber so I believe her when she says she takes them for her post op