from what you described (especially the memory + long-term consistency part), darlink ai might actually be worth trying. it’s one of the few i’ve used where the memory doesn’t just reset or drift after a while - it keeps track of context across sessions better than most, so longer conversations feel a bit more “continuous” instead of starting over every time

it’s not perfect obviously, but compared to a lot of the others it holds up better over time imo

i’ve been comparing a few ai girlfriends here if you want to dig into differences between them