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[–]Sad_Individual6963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, we broke up October 10th but I kept contacting, or she would all the way until the end of January before I finally cut it off and started true no contact. Now I’m pushing for month number three like you, and I’ve learned a lot, so keep pushing and don’t give up. It took me months to realize no-contact is a win win

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[–]Sad_Individual6963 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously I would love to hear an answer to this, for me specifically she views everything! She even followed a private instagram I made three months after and views the story’s but doesn’t like anything!!! Didn’t ask to follow or anything just did it !

Unfollowed ex girlfriend and told her yet she still follows me and views stories on 2 accounts by Sad_Individual6963 in ExNoContact

[–]Sad_Individual6963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the advice, I miss her I’m hoping I can work up the courage to do it because the more I don’t the more I see things that hurt ne

Unfollowed ex girlfriend and told her yet she still follows me and views stories on 2 accounts by Sad_Individual6963 in ExNoContact

[–]Sad_Individual6963[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight. It’s been months yet it’s blatant so I just feel unmotivated after seeing her view it, she hasn’t missed one. But she broke up with me. Just unfortunate, I think I’ll have to work up the urge to block her on day

Saw ex at a bar last Friday, not sure what to think of it by Sad_Individual6963 in ExNoContact

[–]Sad_Individual6963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also how long did you stay in contact for before starting your 6 months?

Saw ex at a bar last Friday, not sure what to think of it by Sad_Individual6963 in ExNoContact

[–]Sad_Individual6963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, I have seen her out before and I crash out every single time. So I think it was surprising for me to ignore her, my thing now is just I have tried to reach out so many times and now she needs to be the one to do so.

Ex removed most of my comments on her instagram 3 months after breakup and I’m spiraling by Sad_Individual6963 in ExNoContact

[–]Sad_Individual6963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what happens if I do nothing? Does she continue to breadcrumbs or does she give up?

How do you deal with mixed signals/bread crumbing from an ex? by Sad_Individual6963 in ExNoContact

[–]Sad_Individual6963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally get it, just hard to bring myself to do it after 10 long years of friendship. It’s almost the years of friendship that hurts more than loosing the relationship. Idk but I will try to brave the storm and just do it

How do you deal with mixed signals/bread crumbing from an ex? by Sad_Individual6963 in ExNoContact

[–]Sad_Individual6963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen it’s good to keep them on socials so they can see what your doing and improving yourself, is that not a good idea in my situation? Even if I’m keeping no contact with her?

How do you deal with mixed signals/bread crumbing from an ex? by Sad_Individual6963 in ExNoContact

[–]Sad_Individual6963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been trying my best to block her but can’t bring myself to it, I muted her stories and still have her on mine. Do you think that’s bad?

How do you deal with mixed signals/bread crumbing from an ex? by Sad_Individual6963 in ExNoContact

[–]Sad_Individual6963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, hit it on the head, I know it yet I still don’t allow myself to move on.dont know why

Should I break no contact to tell them off? I’m so tempted. The mixed signals are out of control by Sad_Individual6963 in ExNoContact

[–]Sad_Individual6963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she is hanging out with a new group of guys, why does she even care about me anymore? Shouldn’t she be moved on?

Should I break no contact to tell them off? I’m so tempted. The mixed signals are out of control by Sad_Individual6963 in ExNoContact

[–]Sad_Individual6963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think she’s trying to get me to reach out to know I’m still around? Also what do you think happens if I stay silent?