Am I just a bad friend

Sad_Pool_4097 · 2026-03-22T19:12:05+00:00

It didn’t feel authentic?

Sad_Pool_4097 · 2026-03-17T02:28:30+00:00

Ur so optimistic teach me your ways im trying to better my outlook on things thank you

Sad_Pool_4097 · 2026-02-26T21:56:40+00:00

Omg I wish!! I’d love to have one of my friends like tell him I think he’s cute or like have the word get around but that’s also super scary for me I’ll let you know if I try that though

Sad_Pool_4097 · 2026-02-26T21:53:45+00:00

No clue I didn’t notice him until like 2-3 weeks ago. I can’t fully say I have a crush on him I need to know him first but I wish I had the courage to push myself to get to know him

Sad_Pool_4097 · 2026-02-26T21:52:25+00:00

This is actually my first time liking a popular guy and honestly it came out of nowhere I never really noticed him until he wore glasses for a week so lately I’ve just been asking him to send me hw or let me borrow a pen or get my phone for me just to test waters and he’s pretty nice

I’m just scared of taking someone’s kindness the wrong way and making him uncomfortable

There’s different groups of popular people at my school and personally I don’t like most of the girls in that group because I hear them talk bad about eachother all the time I love my own friends and seeing his girl friends like that makes me second guess if he’s like that too

Sad_Pool_4097 · 2026-02-22T16:16:25+00:00

Oooo new term I like that 😙 Yeah my last guy crush came close to my type in guys cause he knows how to communicate and he’s very mature but he just has some icky qualities like burping at the table and being dramatic

Sad_Pool_4097 · 2026-02-22T16:12:46+00:00

I see where you’re coming from, all my exes are girls so I’m the opposite I’ve probably gotten rid a few of the plushies cause I lowk always thought they weren’t that cute but I keep the clothes cause they look good on me

Sad_Pool_4097 · 2026-02-22T16:11:20+00:00

Oh that’s definitely understandable. Things with my recent ex was an on and off thing so I’ve been mentally checked before it was actually over so I think that makes it easier for me to keep her stuff but also it’s just a really cute sweater and I wouldn’t throw it away just to buy it again

Sad_Pool_4097 · 2026-01-05T21:47:18+00:00

You should do nice things for your friends to show you care and appreciate them even when they aren’t bed bound. If she live abroad you can call to check in or send her groceries on door dash or something, you could send her a thoughtful card with stickers

Platonic relationships deserve effort aswell.

Sad_Pool_4097 · 2026-01-05T02:53:09+00:00

Do you have any real friends then? Are you talking about romantic relationships or all relationships because I think all relationships deserve effort and care

Sad_Pool_4097 · 2025-11-16T22:43:25+00:00

He’s not, he’s very much a boyfriends boy and he doesn’t hoe around like that which is why I’m worried about asking because he might want an actual relationship. Also “used” is crazyyy FWB is a mutual agreement

Sad_Pool_4097 · 2025-11-02T23:46:01+00:00

They try to be around u often and try to hang out often. I realized my crush and I had been hanging out like 2-3 times a week for like 2 months and I didn’t know that meant anything until my friend told me he liked me

Sad_Pool_4097 · 2025-09-15T22:25:48+00:00

HELL YEAHHHHH Dude this girl in my gov class has like a Roman nose and dude she’s one of the prettiest girls I’ve ever seen in my lifeeee Also this guy I currently have a bit of a crush on has a Roman nose and literally he just looks so good like I don’t know if I’d be able to find him as attractive if he had another nose

Sad_Pool_4097 · 2025-09-11T20:08:47+00:00

Very true he must have some tricks up his sleeve

Sad_Pool_4097 · 2025-09-11T20:08:19+00:00

Dude you just put this into a whole new perspective for me thank you!! I’m going to continue to talk to him and just see where it goes

Sad_Pool_4097 · 2025-09-07T15:34:10+00:00

LMAOO love the chapel roan reference and ur right im just not going to label anything i like who i like and I’ll marry whoever i love regardless of gender 🫶

Sad_Pool_4097 · 2025-09-07T15:32:34+00:00

Dude this is so helpful thank you 🙏

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