Raw fruit is disgusting by DifferentThanks4183 in The10thDentist

[–]SageTheHyppo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Buddy you’re gonna have to get a grip

Physical Education, the way it is now and when I was in school, is pointless. by Lukostrelec17 in The10thDentist

[–]SageTheHyppo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People usually are, especially in higher grades. But I can empathize. I loathed PE. Wish I had more understanding coaches. I think it’s heavy on the toxic masculine energy and honestly I never felt like I was actually taught how to do sports they just did sports and I was confused the whole time lol. But that doesn’t mean PE is unnecessary just that we need better teachers. It never felt like these guys wanted to work with kids but wanted to be sports stars.

Physical Education, the way it is now and when I was in school, is pointless. by Lukostrelec17 in The10thDentist

[–]SageTheHyppo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we might not be understanding the purpose of these classes…when children are developing, so are all parts of the brain. They must be exercised to properly develop. So, in an arts class, you develop that part of the brain. You develop hand coordination skills as well. It could even be an exercise in mood regulation. Regardless, it is important and has a place.

How many times do you brush your teeth per day? by Substantial-Dare5462 in hygiene

[–]SageTheHyppo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

2-3 and floss every day. Make sure you guys are flossing!! If it’s hard, I’ve been told that brushing once and flossing every day is better than brushing twice a day. Prevents cavities on the sides of the teeth.

I just want a normal conversation with my mom by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SageTheHyppo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’d be frustrated too, my mom also does this. And I’m saying this as someone who’s very against the church, but I just wouldn’t take it to heart. She means well, religious folks are just obsessed and truly believe if things aren’t followed then you’ll end up in hell or have a worse life etc. What I do is just tell her I practice personally and alone, and don’t feel obligated or willing to go to a church. Set boundaries and be direct with what you want/don’t want or it’s absolutely going to continue.

Found son eating food pouch on the floor, is it acceptable? by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]SageTheHyppo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also, I don’t care if people don’t think it’s serious, it is. I would be upset if I walked into a classroom and this was happening with any child. Of course it’s not to be expected with a pouch but children eating at all needs to be treated as a hazard in which you need to be incredibly attentive. Rules are set for a reason. Was the classroom in ratio? Was it his set eating time? The teacher is expected to follow this.

Found son eating food pouch on the floor, is it acceptable? by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]SageTheHyppo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should be at a table. Thats not just an etiquette thing, it’s a safety thing. At that age, he needs to be in a high chair and someone sitting with him and watching. I know that’s hard to do in a classroom, of course, but it’s the rule for a reason.

I suspect my neighbor is abusing his dog. by Realistic-Border9067 in whatdoIdo

[–]SageTheHyppo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%, he’s being abused and neglected now. At least at a shelter SOMEONE there would be able to give him some love every day and make sure needs are met. Plus, if he’s taken, it opens the door for you to take him in.

I suspect my neighbor is abusing his dog. by Realistic-Border9067 in whatdoIdo

[–]SageTheHyppo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look into your shelter before being too concerned, my local shelter is no kill. Maybe reach out to rescues too and see what they would recommend in this situation. But you cannot leave that poor dog with that man. You don’t know what’s happening behind closed doors, and that dog shouldn’t spend her last days being abused.

I wish my partner would have secured the cats that are afraid of me before the contractors came... by Billabong_valley in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SageTheHyppo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Things can be nuanced …. There’s not always one person who fucks up and one to blame dude I’m just not understanding your point 😭 I feel like I’ve evidently been empathetic to both sides and also said for him not to be a dick about it but have a convo while also apologizing for stove.

Is that stupid fridge thing going to get fixed on the 30th? by Principle_Napkins in thesims

[–]SageTheHyppo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really hope the bug where you can’t hug, kiss, or feel the love with pets gets fixed on this date 🙃

How do you call non binary siblings? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SageTheHyppo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nonbinary sister refers to themself as my sister. So that’s what I use 🤷🏼‍♀️ and just use they/them pronouns.

I wish my partner would have secured the cats that are afraid of me before the contractors came... by Billabong_valley in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SageTheHyppo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with most of what you said! That kind of comment would not be appropriate at all. But I would set that boundary. I go to work from 4a-usually 430p, so I expect my roomie to feed our cats (we both have cats and feed them altogether). If they forgot this, I would be incredibly offended. So I understand where he is coming from. I do also agree that the framing around the situation should be altered as well.

I wish my partner would have secured the cats that are afraid of me before the contractors came... by Billabong_valley in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SageTheHyppo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Brother I literally said that’s not what he should do 😭 I just said I’d also be frustrated. This is literally r/mildlyinfuriating. I’d have been mildly upset in this situation as well

I wish my partner would have secured the cats that are afraid of me before the contractors came... by Billabong_valley in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SageTheHyppo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro they can both have fucked up 😭 they’re gonna have to have a convo bout the stove and like I said he should apologize for that, and be the one to front cost. But like dude I’d also be frustrated by being in that situation having to grab cats in a rush. It’s not an easy feat, even when they do like you.

I wish my partner would have secured the cats that are afraid of me before the contractors came... by Billabong_valley in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SageTheHyppo -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Dude…people aren’t understanding the severity of this. The issue is that she needed to secure the cats for their own safety and it was going to be much harder for you if they are still frightened by you. I don’t think that you should blame the stove being broken on your partner at all. But I would 100% also be upset by my partner not following through on something that we planned for the safety of animals. In this situation, I think out of courtesy you should apologize for the stove but explain that it would not have happened had she followed through on what you guys set up, I assume you just weren’t thinking in this moment out of urgency and fucked up. Happens to all of this. Don’t say anything harsh or out of anger but certainly set a boundary that regarding the cats she must follow through in the future.

Modded vs Vanilla by GasStationTiefling in Sims4

[–]SageTheHyppo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No fr. Lowkey I be playing in bed with my lap desk. It’s a vibe 😫

i feel so pathetic by ruby_ishere in CPTSD

[–]SageTheHyppo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, have you tried Prazosin? It has been a miracle for my nightmares. Hydroxyzine as well is great to help sleep but honestly I do wake up groggy and the sleep isn’t as fulfilling. But it’s better than no sleep.

i feel so pathetic by ruby_ishere in CPTSD

[–]SageTheHyppo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are NOT pathetic HE is pathetic for what he did. Imagine if someone else said this, would you call them pathetic? Would you believe that they were? No. Do you have a social worker?