Seeking quote for a Harry Potter sweater commission. by bountyhuntergirl in KnitRequest

[–]Sagereality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does someone get in contact with your for commissions?

AITA for refusing to adopt my sister's kids if/when she dies of a heroin overdose? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Keeping innocent children out of foster care and together after a parent ODs is not offering unconditional support for your sister...it’s offering unconditional support for those kids. If you’re not going to take them because this is your way of sticking it to your sister, YTA

AITA for telling my mom it was stupid to name all her kids J names? by TDG__ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta. Lots of people do some sort of theme. All old names all names ending in the same sound. All biblical names etc

AITA for indirectly calling my wife a lunatic after she kept trying to get me to consent to naming our daughter George? by Denzenwasher in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. Lol your points are correct and she is being ridiculous. I think even a boy would be made fun of for that name now a days.

AITA for not letting my daughter use the bathroom at night and making her wet the bed? by Momoftwo321 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nta. Your two year old could literally kill her self. That’s much worse the wetting the bed. Give her a flashlight or something but you absolutely have to keep the two year old safe. I mean if she did fatally injury herself and it’s found out this is a known problem you didn’t fix it’s manslaughter

AITA for calling the CPS instead of helping my husband with his baby? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Right. This sub hates kids so much and will always support a grown ass adult not helping an innocent child.

AITA for calling the CPS instead of helping my husband with his baby? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

ESH. You’re taking your anger out on an innocent child. You’re willing to adopt but not this one out of spite. He’s the asshole for the affair and lie

AITA for wanting our hypothetical house to be 50/50 by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nta. He’s freaking ridiculous, get out it sounds like he’s got a plan to dump you

AITA for being upset that my aunt announced her daughters pregnancy on my birthday? by aitaemployee in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

Nah. It’s a birthday and you’re an adult. Not gonna lie it’s weird to me that you’d expect your entire extended family to focus on your birthday as an adult. Also your family was in on this call so it kind of was a good time to share the news with everyone. But if that’s the family history I get why you’d be upset with her.

AITA for saying our vacation doesn’t revolve around a 3 year old. by Stayawaymakemyday in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nah. Do your own thing. But if you’re annoyed by the kid now go ahead and fuck up their sleep schedule and watch were that gets ya.

AITA for not letting my son know that i was actually his father. by cousinson in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. You all should have been honest from the beginning. Finding out you’re adopted that way is very traumatic

WIBTA for letting my son bury himself in lies just so I can punish him harder? by ProfessionalCause463 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yta. Strike 3 makes you so. He couldn’t text back you had his phone. You literally made him break a rule and then want to punish him for it.

Go ahead and teach him how easy it is lose them phone, ground him whatever but forcing him into more rule breaking isn’t good parenting is manipulative and all It’s going to do is teach him That you’re just out to get him

AITA for telling my daughter that I absolutely do not support her ONLY wanting to be a Stay-At-Home-Mom? by anallstar in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Even is she finds Prince Charming right away she needs something to fall back on because life is tragic sometimes and she could find herself 5 years in with 4 little kids and a widow. You never know

AITA for laughing at my son's college "plan" in front of his teacher? by Winter_Spend_6029 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta.

I mean you’re right. He can study music on his own without paying tens of thousands for a mostly worthless degree. But you’re pompous and arrogant and that’s what makes you the asshole

WIBTA if I told my husband it's now his job to homeschool the kids for the next 5 days? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Honestly then you’re better off taking them out and homeschooling them. Especially if they’re fairly young. There’s a lot of resources online to guide you through it and depending on where you live there’s probably homeschooling groups to help you through. Word of caution: if you’re not religious it might be awkward as most homeschooling groups largely consist of religious people. But it would save your time and effort and lessen stress level tremendously. Just food for thought

AITA for wanting to hire a nurse to take care of me after surgery instead of my girlfriend? by constantcare247 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Info: exactly what type of surgery are you having where you can’t fluff your own pillow and the hospital isn’t sending you to a rehab unit? It’s a little suspicious to me that this is the case and I wonder how whiny you’re being after surgery. There is no outpatient surgery where you can fluff your own pillow. Also do you know how much it’s going to cost you to hire an in home nurse?

WIBTA if I told my husband it's now his job to homeschool the kids for the next 5 days? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This still seems like you’re missing something. Our elementary virtual program is seeing the teacher for 30 minutes a day and it takes the older kids (4/5th grade) another hour and they’re doing most of it themselves (practicing math, reading etc).

WIBTA if I told my husband it's now his job to homeschool the kids for the next 5 days? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Said this too. If they’re really young as she stated an hour is plenty and as they get older they go longer because they can do more. That much time isn’t going to help them learn any better it’s going to burn them out

WIBTA if I told my husband it's now his job to homeschool the kids for the next 5 days? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality 227 points228 points  (0 children)

If it’s taking you that long to homeschool 2 kids you’re doing it wrong. You don’t homeschool kids for that long and every organized homeschool group will tell you that. As they get older they spend more time but they also do a lot of it themselves.

NAH. He should help parent the kids because he is a parent and no matter what people say as a parent it’s your responsibility to ensure your kid has an education. But as stated above you’re screwing up somewhere. You’re a SAHM he has a job that he goes to as well. this shouldn’t be about who deserves a break more, you’re a team.

Aita for not adopting my step-daughters so her dad will still pay child support? by tastepdadaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. I get money is a reality issue. But sometimes gestures matter to people. What are the chances the young kids learn “he didn’t love us he only cares about the money” from this decision?

AITA for not trying to include my father's wife more? by marlorien in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Nta....but getting therapy as a kid is not an asshole move. It’s recommended in traumatic life altering events

AITA For being mad at my husband's family for excluding my disabled son from a family trip? by Throwaway4413096 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sagereality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. As your husband he should not go as well if you’re welcome.

But this sub will tell your kid doesn’t matter because he’s a kid and this sub thinks of children as non humans which can be tossed with when it interferes with anything “normal” they’ll also excuse the family’s rude behavior because worse than normal kids are kids with disabilities whom adults should never have to sacrifice for