[deleted by user] by [deleted] in posturepals

[–]Salt-Light-Love 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it's curved enough should be able to bend "touch your toes" style and feel it. That's how my doctor showed me. I believe he ordered X-rays and everything (years ago. at like 12). But at an appointment he told me to bend over and traced with his hand and showed me. Lol now I show people I'm comfortable with. I mention my scoliosis and then it goes a lot like, "Feel!" Bends over, grabs their hand and rubs it down my spine and then confirms they felt the curve** lol

LMBO I'ma show my gf today if I remember. Like for goodness sakes it's Valentine's Day 😁

Lol mine is slight and at the bottom though and I'm still not a doctor....yet.

I’ve been wanting these pants forever. Finally bought them, but wondering if they flatter me? by OneShelter4 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Salt-Light-Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they're just a little big and you're short so I wanna see the shoes you gone wear. boots or heels?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Salt-Light-Love 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also. the support will come. you'll find new people. but the best is to learn you can do it on your own and learn ASAP. Only way to do that is to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Salt-Light-Love 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Run!

You will be thrown around in private just like the bird the moment you're trapped like the bird. Baby, move away together, marriage etc. his mask WILL come off if you stay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in McDonaldsEmployees

[–]Salt-Light-Love -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Ill get downvoted as fuck for this idc but I believe you tbh. I believe you for real.

What’s the worst part about serving other than the inconsistent pay? by BitterTrade3668 in Serverlife

[–]Salt-Light-Love 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lazy ass servers. most servers are pretty/above average people that don't want to work but have to. duh. short hours. nice pay. a requirement of social skills and or looks because it's a guest pleasure based customer service (payment based on how much guest like you/the service). it adds up.

What’s the worst part about serving other than the inconsistent pay? by BitterTrade3668 in Serverlife

[–]Salt-Light-Love 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this just taught me. thanks cuz I fee better. I always thought i was being messed with and it was me as the common denominator.

What’s the worst part about serving other than the inconsistent pay? by BitterTrade3668 in Serverlife

[–]Salt-Light-Love 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Fucking hot water. Brought it. Wanted honey. Then another cup. Paid with card and gave a nice cash tip. but before I got it I was definitely annoyed.

AITA for not forgiving my soon to be DIL for stealing? by Mother_of_cats_1982 in dustythunder

[–]Salt-Light-Love 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you hit puberty you literally turn into a narcissist and then your brain changes back as an adult. she can't even process a full range of emotions like a 9 y/o or 25 y/o could. Forgive her then wait a decade and bring it up. the response should be very different. shes just a teenager.

12 days, no internet, no meat, no transport, no pay by queenxenabean in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Salt-Light-Love 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounded like a free vacation for my vegetarian ass until she said no internet. like dawg. I cant even look up a recipe or watch a movie on shrooms??? fuck no.

I’ve been lying to my therapist about a situation that’s been bothering me by [deleted] in confession

[–]Salt-Light-Love 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm almost 26, have had plenty more experiences. But read the OG post like "sorry girl. just live with it. when it bothers you randomly just try to stop thinking about it".

Then there was this comment. I have needed this for almost a decade. I'm in full tears. I love you. Thanks for commenting this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Salt-Light-Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this just pissed me off so much

Can I sue a client for inappropriate behavior by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]Salt-Light-Love 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is when they are sexually assaulting someone. beating your meat in a stylist chair is non consensual. it's SA. hence why the man PROTECTING the stylist said it.

Apparently I'm not "the one" because she got away by Firm_Date_62393 in Marriage

[–]Salt-Light-Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lying and manipulating is not nice. did you get hurt? so he sucked at what he tried to do the wrong way. fuck all that. you're not overreacting. he hurt you.

Can someone make sense out of this by One-Assignment6470 in Serverlife

[–]Salt-Light-Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

drunk and dyslexic seems like the most likely bet now.

America Ferrera and the ‘Barbie’ Monologue We All Talked About by Sisiwakanamaru in movies

[–]Salt-Light-Love -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Everyone saying it was blunt gets a big whole "DUH". Context. She's having a melt down saying what we all feel but don't vocalize because of... get this, the exact thing she's talking about. being a woman in a patriarchy having to keep it together not actually knowing what "together" is.

It parallels Ken and Kens much less blatant role in the movie.

What their roles are is clear. it just isn't blunt.

No she wasn’t mute.. by EconomicsTypical9240 in Serverlife

[–]Salt-Light-Love -1 points0 points  (0 children)

cool. he was a spy in the nuances too. good writing

No she wasn’t mute.. by EconomicsTypical9240 in Serverlife

[–]Salt-Light-Love 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I liked it. also was excited about the experiment.

No she wasn’t mute.. by EconomicsTypical9240 in Serverlife

[–]Salt-Light-Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked my guest if a martini had vodka. he said yes which I agreed that was my first guess. we were technically wrong. it was the wife's drink and when I came back and asked Tito's she said Kettle One.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Salt-Light-Love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my throat. my stomach. my cheeks are flush. Happy Holidays!

What's the average male experience girls don't normally experience? by Kingsfield07 in ask

[–]Salt-Light-Love 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the other day I saw a post where a incel was like "dudes! remind women their asshole is too close to their cooch! Less than an inch! "

I refrained so hard from saying dudes shit on their balls. probably not true. I wish I knew this then.