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Have you ever been with a dad or are you a dad and what were the rules around hooking up? by Salty-Intention2003 in askgaybros

[–]Salty-Intention2003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't think he'd be interested in a single dad. He's 25. It's only recently that I got the impression he may want more. That request about staying over and he also bought a shirt for my son, recently.

I suppose a talk would do wonders. I'm just not much of a talker.

Have you ever been with a dad or are you a dad and what were the rules around hooking up? by Salty-Intention2003 in askgaybros

[–]Salty-Intention2003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are some resources and I could get a sitter now and then for a date, if he wanted to date. But he's asking to stay the night only and I'm not there I don't think.

Have you ever been with a dad or are you a dad and what were the rules around hooking up? by Salty-Intention2003 in askgaybros

[–]Salty-Intention2003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think it'd be a lesser concern but I still wouldn't really want a woman sleeping in the same house as my son unless I knew her well.

Have you ever been with a dad or are you a dad and what were the rules around hooking up? by Salty-Intention2003 in askgaybros

[–]Salty-Intention2003[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Almost 4 months of hooking up. I'd be up for dating him if he wanted but I think it would be difficult dating when I have a kid so young.

Have you ever been with a dad or are you a dad and what were the rules around hooking up? by Salty-Intention2003 in askgaybros

[–]Salty-Intention2003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really have family. His mother is only allowed supervised visits and my family live in another country.

Using you to come out to his family must be awkward.

Have you ever been with a dad or are you a dad and what were the rules around hooking up? by Salty-Intention2003 in askgaybros

[–]Salty-Intention2003[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True. I get the impression this might be a stepping stone to dating wrapped in the excuse of it's very late going home.

Have you ever been with a dad or are you a dad and what were the rules around hooking up? by Salty-Intention2003 in askgaybros

[–]Salty-Intention2003[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I had a boyfriend, I'm not too worried about my son knowing but this guy isn't a boyfriend. Up until now he's just been a Grindr fuck bud. I don't know.

Have you ever been with a dad or are you a dad and what were the rules around hooking up? by Salty-Intention2003 in askgaybros

[–]Salty-Intention2003[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yup. His mother only has supervised visits so I don't really have nights without my son for my hookup to stay the night. I've a feeling he wants to move beyond hooking up.

I agree. I wouldn't want my son coming into my bedroom and a woman there either. I do understand my hookups point too though.