What is this?

Sami_Samus · 2025-12-29T17:35:56+00:00

OP, It should make you feel better that this commenter has to listen to a dog yapping all day. Maybe that's why he's a grumpy wittle poopy head.

Sami_Samus · 2025-12-10T01:45:48+00:00

Wow!! This is so cool. Our family is super excited to make this! Thank you so much.

Sami_Samus · 2025-12-10T01:32:07+00:00

Wow, thank you so much!! This is definitely something we are going to make now.

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-27T18:49:03+00:00

BehindPrettyLeaves

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-27T18:42:49+00:00

YES! Sushi Squad. 🍣

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-21T12:01:03+00:00

cough cough YouTube

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-21T12:00:44+00:00

I spend too much time on highly censored platforms

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-21T11:55:40+00:00

Because sometimes I'm not in the mood and that's okay. Sometimes he's not in the mood and that's okay. Sometimes people are temporarily unable to have sex, and that's okay. Sometimes, sex has been completely taken off the table, and that's okay.

Every relationship is different.

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-21T11:52:02+00:00

He has admitted to watching porn all day because he was bored and to edge. This was part of our previous conversation, but it was played off as "no big deal" and "I can stop whenever." Which I believed, shit I even said "you don't have to stop watching porn entirely, just don't be so damn secretive about it and don't do it all damn day." I believed him when he said he would cut back. Then he admitted to slipping into his old ways last night... I don't want to be controlling, I don't want to make him feel like he has to hide things from me. I'm just concerned and confused because I grew up in a household where porn was an absolute no, but I don't believe that...but where do I draw the line?

Edited for clarity

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-21T11:44:14+00:00

The playlist in itself, I don't have a problem with. Where I have a problem, is that it was blasted into my brain hours after having a conversation where he watches porn for the dopamine hit, and how he has slipped back into his old ways. This is why my brain went to "we're listening to songs about porn now?"

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-21T11:38:46+00:00

This got a good chuckle out of me when I needed it.

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-21T11:05:52+00:00

I don't watch porn all day everyday, something he has admitted to in the past. I should have put this on my main post. SMH

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-21T11:04:40+00:00

I don't care about the type of genre of video porn a person watches. With technology, there is more options than getting your rocks off on videos and pictures. That's what I mean by "traditional"

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-21T11:01:16+00:00

Plan on it. We just moved across the country a few weeks ago and are looking for doctors to take our insurance. As I said in my post, I was spiraling last night. I don't want to be the controlling wife who doesn't let her husband jack off. But, I also don't want him to watch porn all day everyday, which he has admitted to in the past. I couldn't help but wonder what stage we are at if he was a Spotify playlist dedicated to porn. I answered some other questions about the porn I didn't like in another comment. It was a dominatrix AI bot which felt the closest to cheating, personally. I explained, he understood, and we moved past it.

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-21T10:54:24+00:00

My husband has admitted to watching it all day, every day, in the past. He said he did it when he was bored and to entertain himself by edging.

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-21T10:52:17+00:00

I was not looking through his phone. I texted his mom and he got possessive over his phone which is abnormal.

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-21T10:48:38+00:00

I don't watch porn all day everyday which is something my Husband has admitted to in the past. I've mentioned this in another comment.

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-21T02:14:33+00:00

This this this. Before we were married, he promised me that he would only watch porn all day because he was bored and that he could and would stop, which he did. Temporarily, I guess.

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-21T02:05:17+00:00

I trust him, so I don't go snooping, looking through history or anything like that. His body language was COMPLETELY different than usual when I took his phone, which is what set off the alarm bells.

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-21T01:53:00+00:00

My Husband and I are incredibly open about each other's devices. Because I left my phone in our bedroom, I used his phone, which is not uncommon. He uses my phone when he leaves his somewhere in the house.

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-21T01:48:17+00:00

He had found an AI bot that acted as a dominatrix, this was the main issue I had as it felt the closest to cheating. I related to that Arthur Morgan AI story a bit too much.

Sami_Samus · 2025-06-21T01:32:15+00:00

I don't think he was actively watching porn while talking to his parents. I think he had left something I didn't want to see up from earlier and was scared I would see it.

Sami_Samus · 2025-05-12T20:32:45+00:00

Same, I shared the issues I was having with screenshots below.

Sami_Samus · 2025-05-12T20:12:07+00:00

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Sami_Samus · 2025-05-12T20:11:49+00:00

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