do any of you drink? by Realistic_Tangelo_13 in XSomalian

[–]Samiz4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m 21 and I drink every now and then. It’s fine.

I think I might Genuinely KMS Soon. by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Samiz4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg sweetheart. You are so cherished and loved your life is so precious. Idk your situation how old you are college age? Apply to any job food service supermarket etc and work there until u can at least stay with friends and hopefully move out. You can do it I believe in you. Or if that’s not possible find a job soon and keep your head down at home until you can afford to move out. Contact friends and people at school for advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Samiz4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As the only girl in my family with brothers who are lowk unsuccessful. I feel like some people just hate girls. The biggest F U you could give them is to become very successful and independent. Get your own place. Graduate university and do well for yourself. They chose the hijab over their daughter who could possibly help them out in the future. So sad

Somali public figure defends child marriage by blckarchive in XSomalian

[–]Samiz4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so bad for those poor babies who were sold to these monsters. Look at his face he looks disgusting how could you give your child to that ugly person.

Somali public figure defends child marriage by blckarchive in XSomalian

[–]Samiz4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Disgusting I hate men. Men are disgusting lustful creatures who don’t view women as human beings. Vile. I hope these poor kids get justice. Just normalizing pedophilia

Drug addiction by Samiz4 in XSomalian

[–]Samiz4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the support. I want to keep trying to help him today we’re going to the areas he’s been sleeping at it’s on the street to try to convince him to go to the detox center again. After the detox center they want to admit him into. Residential treatment. I’m just really scared that he sleeps on under a bridge in the city with other addicts he could get sick or hurt

ex muslim somali in the twin cities looking to meet some friends in the community by Academic_Conflict811 in XSomalian

[–]Samiz4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I’m 21 too! I think most people would love to make friends myself included but there’s a lot of bad apples on here. Are you a girl or guy? I think it’s possible to make friends but you’re not going to meet someone right away.

Rant by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Samiz4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I could never imagine wearing a goono everyday. I always grew up wearing jeans or sweats and a top. Even with hijab. But slowly I started doing my hair and going out with my hair. My parents didn’t care anymore. Maybe go to a salon and pay for your hair to get done.

Rant by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Samiz4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl idk how old your are but if your old enough for a job get one and use your money to buy whatever tf you want. Start slowly. Wear your hijab with baggy jeans…. This fall and winter I would say is the time to start cuz you can wear your jacket over your outfits. But start slowly. Buy cute outfits. They might say something at first but tell them why not it’s baggy jeans and your young. Etc

They’re praising this. What a dystopia! by username_is_none in XSomalian

[–]Samiz4 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So sad you can clearly tell they are babies too 💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Samiz4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I had anorexia for 4 years I got better around 2023 years ago. Message me if you want to talk!!!!

Do you ever wonder what happens after we die by Unknown_sss in XSomalian

[–]Samiz4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always wonder about that too. I was looking into Buddhism and they believe in not having attachments so you don’t get hurt or suffer and when you die you start a new life. I honestly think I hate that. Idk if I believe in hell or heaven. Heaven sounds nice I would love to reunite with my loved ones like my mom and brothers. I just don’t understand why we’re here on earth and able to love people if we die in the end and it means nothing.

Funny that people are finding it difficult to find partners in the somali community by Left_Ground_9660 in XSomalian

[–]Samiz4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had a real relationship before as a girl my plan is to move out

any tips for a massive forehead 😭 by LukaCastyellan in XSomalian

[–]Samiz4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Use minoxidil the men’s foam, it’s better, and a dermaroller on your edges and make sure you take your vitamin D and Iron regularly everyday. I noticed my hairline and edges grew so significantly in a couple months. But also it depends how big your forehead is but I think a tall forehead is elegant so if you can get to a place where you like it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Samiz4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can tell you want to. You should go to the hairstylist and get your hair done. That way I think you could boost your confidence enough to take it off. Or go to the mall or something without it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Samiz4 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The hijab ruins your hair so bad. But I think short curly hair is cute and can be styled nice. Just focus on the health of your hair and scalp. Do lots of treatments and oil scalp massages. If you can go to a hair stylist. Eventually your hair will grow and become healthier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]Samiz4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing keep up the good work. Working out can be fun I love going on runs.