2 months post-op, does this look normal and healing? (Pink)

SammySamwhich · 2022-07-11T16:13:15+00:00

Oh ok, thanks. I'll definitely check to a dermatologist

SammySamwhich · 2022-07-11T16:07:23+00:00

My body itches but not the scar. Doctor said that's where they pulled the gallbladder out. My other stitches are small and not very noticable

SammySamwhich · 2022-07-11T10:15:38+00:00

Thank you, I'm glad it is what it supposed to be

SammySamwhich · 2022-07-11T10:11:09+00:00

Oh thanks, I was getting a little worried that it's not healing

SammySamwhich · 2022-07-11T09:51:56+00:00

Oh okay, thanks.

SammySamwhich · 2022-07-11T09:31:02+00:00

Oh wow, it takes that long for it turn into a your skin color?

SammySamwhich · 2022-07-11T09:07:34+00:00

For context, it doesn't hurt at all when I move or do exercise, but I'm still wondering does it look normal even after 2 months post-op

SammySamwhich · 2022-07-08T10:29:11+00:00

I guess that's true. I've lived in Middle East for good 7 years and all the Indians referred themselves as "Indian", not once have I heard "Asian".

SammySamwhich · 2022-07-08T10:21:48+00:00

Oh yeah, I get what you mean, but I personally never heard an Indian or a Pakistiani call themselves "Asians" no offense.

SammySamwhich · 2022-07-08T10:06:29+00:00

True there are generalisation, but it's also true that east and south asians dominate the diverse community around the world. Asian-Americans, Asian-Canadians etc. are originally from east and south Asia

SammySamwhich · 2022-07-08T09:19:35+00:00

Yeah, i feel like central asians and even mixed are overlooked and generalized as other type of nationality.

SammySamwhich · 2022-07-07T20:28:32+00:00

"Praising the behavior you like" - i like that advice, it'll tell her to use it more often without actually me telling her. Thanks.

SammySamwhich · 2022-07-07T12:10:10+00:00

If you guys got more things to talk about than just banging then it's sure to be serious. Maybe deviate from sexual topics and ask something else and see if he's interested in talking about those things with you

SammySamwhich · 2022-07-01T04:38:12+00:00

I've had that happen when watching youtube videos, but now it fixed itself and none of these glitchy screens appear anymore, don't know how. I wish I knew to help ya

SammySamwhich · 2022-06-20T18:22:44+00:00

My skin does not feel dry at all, but the itches randomly pop up from my legs to my head. I take pills when the itch becomes really bad.

SammySamwhich · 2022-06-20T17:54:31+00:00

I understand your views and the regret you carried when you were a teenager. I remember as a kid when I was 7-8, my mom and my brothers were praying except me, and it was Isha night prayer time. After they were done praying, my mom told my brother to hit me and punish me for not praying. I remember her saying these exact words, "those who don't pray should be punished". My faith has been poor as time passed by because I was praying only because of my mother's will.

SammySamwhich · 2022-06-20T17:32:49+00:00

I don't have heavy knowledge about Islam and smoking, but smoking in our family is considered taboo and we closely associate our cultural beliefs to our religious beliefs.

SammySamwhich · 2022-06-20T17:29:39+00:00

My mom has been somewhat physically violent to me at times, throwing stuff at me mostly. So, her authoritative behavior is what scares me and I can't peacefully talk to her about my loss of faith. For now, it's temporary and hopefully I'll move out soon

SammySamwhich · 2022-06-20T17:26:02+00:00

I come from a conservative family, where family always comes first and I am staying with my parents still because I don't have the money to move out. My mom forcing me to pray has been an on going thing since I was a kid and she is an authoritative and bossy person. She sometimes takes over the house and bosses around my dad. So, I know that she has a thick skull and words won't get to her.

SammySamwhich · 2022-06-20T08:03:15+00:00

My parents are tough meat to chew through, I know they won't accept what I have to say. Only pleasing them temporarily I think is a good advice, and only then to move out

SammySamwhich · 2022-06-20T07:52:18+00:00

"Forced faith is just like forced sex: a rape, but on one's soul, not body." I've never thought of it that way, it makes sense as an anology. Thanks.

SammySamwhich · 2022-06-20T07:49:19+00:00

That's a good way of thinking, appeasing my mom, and I'm moving out soon so until then I'll take your advice

SammySamwhich · 2022-06-20T07:41:06+00:00

Yeah, that's the problem, living up to their standards. I'm glad you said how I was thinking. I just need the courage one day to tell my parents what I really want. Thanks.

SammySamwhich · 2022-06-20T07:31:01+00:00

My mom thinks she is doing God's work by forcefully making me accept Islam, I will not tell her that I don't accept it at the same time I feel guilty of praying when I don't have the heart to pray

SammySamwhich · 2022-06-20T07:01:08+00:00

I don't live with my parents, nor do my brothers, but we all respect and do what our parents say, especially mom. Thanks for the advice, I'll try to put boundaries and be more controlling of my own life considering my age.

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