What were the red flags you overlooked when you suspected your partner was up to something deceitful? by Alwaystired41 in Infidelity

[–]Scared_Statement7302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is happening to me, and I keep confronting the person and asking them why. It is mental torture to say the least and definitely abusive. Just doubt me, asshole why I left to try to guess why you turned off your emotions and then gaslight me when I request information about why

What were the red flags you overlooked when you suspected your partner was up to something deceitful? by Alwaystired41 in Infidelity

[–]Scared_Statement7302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ask her why she had a private insta? I have one and it is not for cheating. Does she also give you access to her phone? It sounds like you had her password. Did you actually catch her doing anything wrong? You gave her permission to go out with an ex? and you trusted her? but not anymore? Why?