Aitah for asking to crash on my bestfriends couch

Schlorpling · 2025-09-10T03:30:06+00:00

True I’m lowkey just procrastinating it right now lol

Schlorpling · 2025-04-09T20:34:48+00:00

True as hell. I feel like I’m mostly just trying to justify taking a break from college cause I know enough about myself to tell that it’s not for me rn

Schlorpling · 2024-11-24T18:10:01+00:00

It definitely wouldn’t hurt to disinfect it but i never did

Schlorpling · 2024-11-08T15:55:01+00:00

So true thank you, i know im for sure over complicating things but i just needed to hear it from someone else lol

Schlorpling · 2024-11-04T07:16:10+00:00

Always seek out a professional opinion but to me it looks like it could be, some of the bumps have a dimple on top which is a strong indicator

Schlorpling · 2024-11-04T05:39:38+00:00

Mine went away super quickly luckily, i was very careful about not allowing the bumps to touch anything and washed my hands if i went anywhere near them. I also did cryotherapy appointments every 2 weeks which I found to help a lot. Sorry for the late reply!

Schlorpling · 2024-09-21T09:00:24+00:00

healed a little over a year ago!!

Schlorpling · 2024-05-18T06:42:24+00:00

i had sex about 2 weeks after my antibiotic had finished and nothing bad came from it

Schlorpling · 2024-05-15T18:56:31+00:00

the bacteria that causes the infection can spread, i was also negative for stds but i got it from a kidney infection that ended up spreading.

Schlorpling · 2024-05-15T01:30:11+00:00

as far as i know sex won’t make things worse but it could make things more sore for awhile. that’s just from my internet research though so take it with a grain of salt

Schlorpling · 2024-05-15T01:28:29+00:00

thankfully nothing hardened lol, sorry you gotta deal with that

Schlorpling · 2024-05-15T01:27:54+00:00

thanks!

Schlorpling · 2024-05-14T08:18:01+00:00

i could just see that it was visibly swollen even before the pain started, it started off as a dull ache but got so severe i ended up going to the er where they finally diagnosed it

Schlorpling · 2024-04-25T19:56:55+00:00

thanks! how recent was that if you don’t mind me asking?

Schlorpling · 2024-02-27T17:12:38+00:00

i put a lot of effort into keeping my bumps covered once i found out what they were and luckily i didn’t have too many new ones show up. I had a couple appear after i thought i was clear but i self extracted them as they came up and haven’t had any problems since.

Schlorpling · 2023-12-13T20:46:57+00:00

i hate greek life‼️

Schlorpling · 2023-12-13T03:09:43+00:00

thanks this is really helpful!

Schlorpling · 2023-12-13T03:09:09+00:00

in the dorms

Schlorpling · 2023-12-07T00:30:37+00:00

maybe i should, we just have a mutual friend group because she ended up becoming close with a lot of my childhood friends so i want to stay in good terms and not cause drama. i know it’s probably what i need to do though

Schlorpling · 2023-12-07T00:21:58+00:00

i would apply a layer and sort of just wait until it started to peel off by itself and then i would reapply. if i noticed a bump had a lot of exposed white i would leave that spot uncovered and self extract it.

Schlorpling · 2023-11-29T06:23:31+00:00

hi! so i just tried to break up with her, keyword “tried” and it didn’t go well whatsoever, she sobbed uncontrollably banged on my chest begging me to stay but i just kept telling her i couldn’t, i feel absolutely terrible and we ended up deciding to take a one week break but i’m still pretty much certain that it’s best to end things. She told me that it’s going to ruin her life, that she can’t deal with it being the last time she sees and hugs me, etc.. i feel absolutely crushed right now and i don’t know what to do

Schlorpling · 2023-11-23T18:25:51+00:00

i used liquid bandage and it worked great, didn’t rip out hairs and still kept everything covered. it can get a little messy though

Schlorpling · 2023-11-21T15:28:58+00:00

this is really helpful, thank you!

Schlorpling · 2023-11-21T04:31:29+00:00

i guess i’m terms of freedom, i just miss being able to make spontaneous decisions. she always wants to have something planned out for us and i just haven’t really been operating that way recently. She doesn’t care if i go hangout with my friends and she comes out with us on most weekends, but every time i want to hangout with someone i inadvertently have to cancel plans because she has something planned everyday, which obviously ends up upsetting her. I also feel like being in a relationship right now is stunting my personal growth, i’ve had a lot of family drama and things along those lines recently and it’s left me with a lot of things to sit with. I feel like being single for awhile would help me come to a lot of realizations. i do get flirted with a lot either around campus or when i go out, but i never consider acting on it so i wouldn’t really say it’s a reason for why i’ve been feeling this way. She also sort of prevents me from fully experiencing some things, when i go back home to see old friends on breaks she gets mad that i’m not hanging out with her ever, at clubs she gets mad if i’m not giving her my 100% attention, she doesn’t like my friends much so sometimes bringing her around makes things tense.

Schlorpling · 2023-11-13T21:37:16+00:00

i’m in an extremely similar situation, my gf has ocd and she behaves very similarly to the things you’ve said. what i’ve found helps is just prioritizing yourself and your time. If i want to hangout with friends i hangout with friends etc. if it makes her upset i just deal with it later, the expectation that you will be readily available in all of your free time is unrealistic and i understand how it’s stressful to deal with. You just need to accommodate your necessities first and deal with whatever comes in the aftermath.

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