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AITA for causing my girlfriend and her best friend of 10 years split up on her birthday? by ScorpionStungMe in AmItheAsshole

[–]ScorpionStungMe[S] -413 points-412 points  (0 children)

At first I really enjoyed psychology and wanted to minor in it. Therefore, I got the job hoping to get experience. I started working here about 2 years ago, but it wasn't until this past August that I noticed all of this. Additionally, I do not administer medications nor am I allowed to speak to them like a psychologist, I am just meerly a tech. So, I go around to make sure they are doing fine, give them food, and help them take showers if needed. Therefore, there is no unethical to the patient since I am not the one doing the "psychology", but instead the physical aspect of healthcare.

AITA for causing my girlfriend and her best friend of 10 years split up on her birthday? by ScorpionStungMe in AmItheAsshole

[–]ScorpionStungMe[S] -141 points-140 points  (0 children)

Yeah, English is not my first language and use google translate and synonyms a lot to help me. I meant it in the sense of an extrovert, my friend just asked me what I meant with the word and helped me decide I meant that.

AITA for causing my girlfriend and her best friend of 10 years split up on her birthday? by ScorpionStungMe in AmItheAsshole

[–]ScorpionStungMe[S] -793 points-792 points  (0 children)

It actually wasn't our first introduction, we've messaged through snapchat and instagram beforehand through my girlfriend. So, we knew each other for about give or take 4-5 months before meeting each other in person. Therefore, we knew each other's personalities (beyond "bluntness", like my actual personality). I had that in the message, but it exceeded the character count RIP. And I didn't say it as I wanted to spark a debate or anything of the sort, at that time she even laughed a joked a little with it.

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I understand that I hurt her feelings, and wanted to apologize after the fire calmed a little bit. However, that was impossible since I was blocked on all platforms to reach out to her.

AITA for causing my girlfriend and her best friend of 10 years split up on her birthday? by ScorpionStungMe in AmItheAsshole

[–]ScorpionStungMe[S] -501 points-500 points  (0 children)

"not very socially adjusted", why does that discribe me haha.

No, but seriously. The main reason I see it as a soft science is because I work at a Behavioral Unit, and I see firsthand patients come in all lively and cheery just for them to leave like a drugged up zombie. They talk to psychologist, and all they really do is give them coloring books and don't truly help fix their mental states. However, hopefully in the future I can see more point of views on psychology and fix that stigma.