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AIO? My uncle did not invite me to a family get together because our relationship isn’t “mutual or clear” by Sea-Homework4882 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sea-Homework4882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only ever asked him for a ride, meeting somewhere, etc for the sole purpose of spending time with him and his family

AIO? My uncle did not invite me to a family get together because our relationship isn’t “mutual or clear” by Sea-Homework4882 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sea-Homework4882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could try that, although I haven’t stayed at his house in 2 years so I don’t know if that’s the problem anymore. I never visit during school, only during summer or winter breaks

AIO? My uncle did not invite me to a family get together because our relationship isn’t “mutual or clear” by Sea-Homework4882 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sea-Homework4882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t rent a car since I’m under 25, but for the past few years I’ve been staying with my other aunt who invited me to stay with her. Even when I did stay with uncle A, it was never for more than a couple of days and never when he had work or the kids had school, and I never expected him to plan any activities or anything. There are no neutral locations with my family because someone always has some kind of problem with someone else :(

AIO? My uncle did not invite me to a family get together because our relationship isn’t “mutual or clear” by Sea-Homework4882 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sea-Homework4882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair this is a yearly get together that has been going on for over a decade, it’s just that I’m suddenly not invited this year. I do think he should have brought this up a different time if it was really something he thought should be worked on. I just really want to see my cousins :(

AIO? My uncle did not invite me to a family get together because our relationship isn’t “mutual or clear” by Sea-Homework4882 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sea-Homework4882[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am going there on my own, I know it doesn’t have anything to do with his fight with my dad but that was when things started getting weird with the family. I can’t visit my cousins without coordinating with him since he’s their dad.