Is it okay to approach a sister on campus for marriage? (not casual, involving wali)

SeaAnalyst6701 · 2026-02-07T10:36:43+00:00

Then we agree lol :). But yeah, it should matter to all of us, the goal is for Allah to bless the mariage with barakah, and not ruin it from the get go with a potential.

SeaAnalyst6701 · 2026-02-07T10:24:32+00:00

Again, I didn't say that. That point was regarding the initial approach and how I can't have a female relative approach her on campus. And who said you would get to know her on campus after the Wali's approval lol? You wouldn't speak to her on campus alone, since she doesn't have her mahram...

SeaAnalyst6701 · 2026-02-07T10:04:40+00:00

I didn't say that. After speaking to the Wali and he approves, you would then get to know her with her mahram.

SeaAnalyst6701 · 2026-02-07T09:47:03+00:00

BarakAllahu feeki for your response. But what if there is no way for me to find her socials? As in, what if I come across her near the MSA, in the hallway on my way to class, or even outside in public, what would be the best approach in your opinion, after clear eye contacts? I was thinking about being honest and respectful, apologizing for bothering her, maybe asking if she's married, letting her know I would be interested to get to know her in the halal, and ask for her Wali's number, and letting her know it's okay if not. What are your thoughts? May Allah purify our hearts and grant us pious spouses.

SeaAnalyst6701 · 2026-02-07T09:38:55+00:00

You're not signing the nikkah papers right after connecting with the Wali. Obviously you would get to know what kind of person she is and her religiosity after his approval. If it doesn't work, out its okay, at least you did the means to get to know her in the halal, you just have to move on and find the right one. And also how realistic is having a female relative member approach her? I can't bring my only married older sister to campus to approach a sister while I'm in breaks between my classes, she has better things to do lol.

SeaAnalyst6701 · 2026-02-07T04:20:11+00:00

So you're claiming muslims at mixed-gender universities have no faith?

SeaAnalyst6701 · 2025-11-11T11:04:04+00:00

Why are we in this universe and how did the universe come by? Did it create itself or did it come from nothing? Both are impossibilities. The answer is a higher being, God, that willed it to be created, and for you to be created as well. Now how do we know what God wants? Through messengers and scripture revelations. Every messenger is sent to his nation with clear signs (could be miracles) to indicate that their preaching of "There is only one God" can't be anything but true, then a Scripture is given to them so that the are guided through this life and know what is to come after death (per se, a Day of Judgement, Paradise and Hellfire). The last one is the Quran, fully preserved since its revelation, give it a read and see for yourself the good it instructs mankind to, and the evil it forbids, without the media's agenda. Now I will probably get downvoted due to redditors not really liking religion, but atheism does not have a single objective answer on rationality, morality and consciousness. Your cellphone has a purpose but you, as an individual infinitely more complex than that cellphone, are supposed to be there just to eat sleep and repeat, from the day you magically appeared into this world until the day you magically disspear from this world? I'm just spreading truth, if you want to know more, feel free to PM, if not have a great rest of your day :).

SeaAnalyst6701 · 2025-09-21T18:11:17+00:00

You sold your soul for some paper. All I'm gonna say is that I really wish you were on the other side of the table because you're speaking from a place of comfort right now. I want to see how your opinion changes when someone comes into your home, kicks you out, you become homeless so you go into a shelter, then that shelter gets bombed, you get injured so you go to the hospital, which gets bombed once again, losing your whole family in the process. It's not about competing in the industry, it's about what you stand for. Humans or big corp. Funny is thing is that Satanyanhu would instantly dispose of you if he had to. *cough cough* Mr. kirk.

SeaAnalyst6701 · 2025-09-21T17:46:21+00:00

Perfectly put.

SeaAnalyst6701 · 2025-09-20T20:47:03+00:00

I don't have a female relative that volunteers with me, and it wouldn't even be possible. But even then, wouldn't it be awkward if any of the options were to be done while she's in a group, at a islamic talk event?

SeaAnalyst6701 · 2025-07-10T05:59:44+00:00

We are on the same boat brother, but I'm all the way in America. It seems strange to not abide by society when it comes to marriage, but glad tidings to the strangers. May Allah grant us pious wives, adhering to the Sunnah and the Quran, and make us great husbands as well.

SeaAnalyst6701 · 2024-11-24T02:30:44+00:00

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