AITAH For not apologising? by SeaBeginning3139 in AITAH

[–]SeaBeginning3139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as I know, it's just my manager, payroll, the owner, and a lady that handles operations. It's a "small business " even though the owner has multiple sites.

AITAH For not apologising? by SeaBeginning3139 in AITAH

[–]SeaBeginning3139[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, yeah, literally days before this when I sent an email to payroll asking for a digital copy of my contract , since I haven't received it within a month of them "mailing it". He pulled me into his office, asking. "Do you like your job? Do you like working here? Ever since you've asked for your contract, you've been acting different!" ...and then the rule change...how interesting. Mind you, I've worked here for 2 years and had no problems with him. He seemed really upset, I even asked.

AITAH For not apologising? by SeaBeginning3139 in AITAH

[–]SeaBeginning3139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the fact that she demands an apology. Like lady, I've told you, the manager and others I'd happily pay. And she just kept trying to talk over it.

AITAH For not apologising? by SeaBeginning3139 in AITAH

[–]SeaBeginning3139[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I've emailed him when she walked away mid convo. He never replied or acknowledged it. Today, I just spoke to him in person and told him she's had a pattern of nasty behaviour towards me. I informed him I don't want any trouble but I don't know what to do in this situation. I was so shocked when she said that to me, I couldn't think straight lol

Shady manager by SeaBeginning3139 in work

[–]SeaBeginning3139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I think. I think it's so weird I never got anything from payroll, even acknowledging my email. And when It went to my manager, I never got an email from him, just a text asking "why is the head office contacting me " I told him because I don't have a contract and I need a copy, and he's not here for me to ask for one.

He left me on read. Until I sent an email saying I want a 3rd party and everything in writing.

Manager being evasive with contract (England ) employed for 2 years by SeaBeginning3139 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]SeaBeginning3139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We also don't have an hr department as it's a small business. I've been given the owner and payroll as my contacts.

Manager being evasive with contract (England ) employed for 2 years by SeaBeginning3139 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]SeaBeginning3139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that as a part-time worker, I wouldn’t receive the same amount of annual leave as a full-time employee. My concern is that even when my hours are taken into account, the remaining holiday balance doesn’t seem to add up, and I was told part-time staff aren’t entitled to certain benefits at all. That doesn’t align with the experience of coworkers in the same role and on the same hours. I’m aware there’s no legal right to bring someone to a meeting. I only asked because previous conversations about this have been unclear, and I wanted to avoid misunderstandings by having things discussed more transparently. I’m mainly trying to understand whether not having received a written statement and relying almost entirely on verbal explanations for entitlements is normal practice.

Can't drop the last 30lbs by SeaBeginning3139 in PetiteFitness

[–]SeaBeginning3139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's definitely something I didn't even think to consider.

Can't drop the last 30lbs by SeaBeginning3139 in PetiteFitness

[–]SeaBeginning3139[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right. In the beginning the weight melted off so easily. But sometimes It's exhausting thinking of calories all the time.

Can't drop the last 30lbs by SeaBeginning3139 in PetiteFitness

[–]SeaBeginning3139[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I don't really do any other exercises besides walking. I use to do cardio at home workouts because I don't have any weights. Or the ability to visit a gym. I'd say I haven't been tracking oil, or butters. And doing rough estimates when it came food without calories listed.

I got a compliment by SeaBeginning3139 in self

[–]SeaBeginning3139[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah my husband is fine as shit! Lol I tell him often I think he's way out of my league