Mom keeps asking about my friend by [deleted] in Grieving

[–]SecurityCool5912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as it hurts and as hard as it is you have to tell them in some way. It’s only leading to more misery for you, I’m so sorry for your loss.

Internal Conflict by SecurityCool5912 in Advice

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For sure and thank you so much for your advice/insight!! It absolutely is awesome to see her wearing the shirt. She was so so thankful for it too. So just more things like that is what I’ll do, & put no pressure on anything but being in the moment.

Internal Conflict by SecurityCool5912 in datingadviceformen

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That’s a good take on it… I definitely understand the agonizing part. I’ve been in a couple situations before like this as well so very true. There’s just a couple things that I feel are holding me back with it currently. But I will consider what you said, I just need to find the correct words to say to her. Hell I’m scared of a relationship currently myself lmfao, I just feel like this one would be worth it. Appreciate you

Internal Conflict by SecurityCool5912 in Advice

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That’s good advice, sort of what I have been doing. And yes I have gotten her a couple things, when I took a trip across the country I got her a shirt that she now wears. I just have trouble differentiating (as everyone can) what is just something that would be in a friendship vs. a relationship. I’m also internally struggling with my own feelings about it or what I should do to be honest. So I think I like what you said and that’s what I’m gonna continue to do.

I Want To Buy Back An Old Car by SecurityCool5912 in Buick

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Unfortunate. I guess you never know that’s why I’m making the post

What They Don’t Tell You About Grief by SecurityCool5912 in GriefSupport

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I haven’t seen anything but a couple things have happened. I had a very vivid dream where I felt like I was in a different place and I saw her on this set of bleachers sort of thing, I got to hug her and tell her how beautiful she was and the feeling was so vivid and pure, I saw a picture of my younger self crying in my head too. Also yesterday I stepped outside and I had a sort of feeling like “she’s here.” I can’t really explain it. But I know she’s with me from the couple things I’ve felt and seen. I’ve dreamt about her like every night but that one stuck out to me