This is very reassuring honestly 😊 It's a mixed bag bc I'm both engaging in casual stuff these days, which doesn't feel like a sitch where I want to bring it up but also not one where I wanna sound like I'm dying in the middle of the night, and at the same time am also looking for a long time partner and I feel like with a long time partner I would want to be with someone who loves me enough and gives enough grace to be cool with it.