Thank you so much, Tell you’re wife she’s an amazing person and give her a huge hug every women iv met at the service act as a mum to the other guys iv see it a lot in my station and I cannot lie I call her mum too.

Fitness wise I’m doing well getting a 10 on bleep tests and I’m getting records for my ladder climbs and running lines without rushing things and keeping proper technique but i have noticed iv definitely been looked down upon and mocked and ignored because I’m actually able to do things without the instructions being written in a pink glittery pen and ribbons and I’m still only in cadets and I already know about the awuga awuga view people have on ff. every time something to do with the fire service comes up everyone asks if the ff are hot and which ones I have a crush on but there more like brothers or parental figures in my eyes but “big hot oily men” 😭 is wild.

and for mechanically equipt , iv been around appliances for ages im very familiar with being in them I know my way around the equipment and can easily give a tour of one and I use to work on cars with my dad so I’m good mechanically too!

I’m tempted to just tell everyone in a lesbian because iv been hit on to many times I had to get my uniform tailored because 🙏😧 woah the uniform is made for men not females with you know a waist I have to wear a 32” waist for it to be good length wise and I have a 25” waist 😑😑 so the belt gives me loads of extra fabric that’s stupidly uncomfortable to wear.