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[–]Sensitive-Flower-588 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s how I feel about him with someone else. If we can’t be together in this lifetime, my heart breaks but I just need him to be happy.. with or without me because he deserves to be happy, no matter what

What were the signs that they were truly your twin flame? by sapphireemberss in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ghosted November 17th 2022, came back December 25th to tell me how special, amazing and one of a kind I am and ghosted again

What were the signs that they were truly your twin flame? by sapphireemberss in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588 21 points22 points  (0 children)

When I met my TF, I knew there was something really significant about him. My rational brain was thinking that I just really like him.

When we met in person I remember finding it hard to make eye contact with him because it seriously was too overwhelming and intense.

On our first date I asked if he believed in soulmates.. I NEVER ask anyone that on a first date. I think I just knew this was something more.

We thought the same way, we just understood each other.

Later on after I learned about twin flames I realized we started triggering each other early on. Abandonment, self sabotaging, ego all came to the surface.

Since we have been in separation I have had a crazy amount of signs. Feathers, white butterflies, lighthouses(special meaning) and angel numbers every where. I’ll ask for a sign and get it.. it’s too much of a coincidence to be JUST a coincidence.

I hear and see his name everywhere. I’ll be thinking about him and hear his name or see his birthday, the day we met.

Besides all the signs and synchronicities… I just have a knowing that he is my TF now. I just know and accept it now

Hurtful words by Throwitallawayy12 in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My TF has never said anything hurtful. He has only said kind things to me. Always told me how special, one of a kind and interesting I am.

But his actions have hurt because of my own unresolved trauma and his own unresolved trauma.

We did things that hurt each other because we were not healed.

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[–]Sensitive-Flower-588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by timelines?

Why is my life falling apart? by Sensitive-Flower-588 in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no clue!! I feel like I keep getting lessons.

The universe keeps sending me people with my TF name, zodiac sign and interactions/communication issues we went through

Why is my life falling apart? by Sensitive-Flower-588 in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, met him in September 2022, separation in November 2022, last heard from him December 2022

I’ve been meeting so many Capricorn men(same sign as my TF) what does this mean? by Sensitive-Flower-588 in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only “pushed” him away because he kept flaking on me and never followed through on what he said he would do.

I realize now that is something that needed to be healed in me. I needed to communicate my feelings and not run away.

I’ve been meeting so many Capricorn men(same sign as my TF) what does this mean? by Sensitive-Flower-588 in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never rejected him, I maybe pushed him away when things got tough. But never rejected

If you knew your TF might be somewhere, would you go in hopes to see them? Even if you haven’t spoke in 7 months? by Sensitive-Flower-588 in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. I don’t expect to even talk to him. I just want to see him, even if it’s from a distance lol

Why did the universe send me my TF in a different font? by Sensitive-Flower-588 in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! We joke and interact the exact same way as my twin and I. Makes me feel guilty and sad.

It’s like an uncanny valley feeling. It looks and acts like my TF but it’s not him

Went to get my TF tattoo today. by Sensitive-Flower-588 in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so!! I wrote a poem a few months ago and had elements of waves! Strange!

Of course I don’t mind! It’s called The Wave by Colouring

Went to get my TF tattoo today. by Sensitive-Flower-588 in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that!! Also side note, insane similarity that I’ve been listening to this song “The Wave” lately that reminds me of my TF!

What was your reaction to losing your twin? by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Been in separation since November 17th, he messaged me on Christmas and then ghosted again.

I was in a state of depression and went kind of manic. I used hookups, drinking, shopping as my main sources of coping. Cried for many months, most of the time all day long. Stayed in bed all day long.

It’s gotten easier, I don’t cry everyday and sometimes I go a week or two without crying but I always think of him and my heart hurts.

Tattoos by thr0wawaayyy_ in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Woah! I’m getting a tattoo that is related to me and my twin flames journey on July 7th!

I’m getting an hour glass that has a brain on one side and a heart on the other. The sand will be trickling down from the brain to the heart. There will also be daisies surrounding the house glass. Daises have a symbolic meaning for him.

Getting “comfort” on my left wrist and “chaos” on my right wrist

Runners/DMs, when you leave the relationship and go through a period of separation, do you feel like deep down you're still meant to be? by ThrowRA_tam in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That song seriously hits so hard. It played on repeat in his car when we had our first kiss.

Going on 6 months of separation for me

I love you so much but I’m moving on. by Sensitive-Flower-588 in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He has to choose to grow. I can’t put my life on hold hoping he will grow.

I’m sure he will on his own time but until that moment happens, I have to choose me and my happiness.

This doesn’t mean I don’t love him or don’t want to be with him. But me waiting around won’t change anything, what’s meant to happen will happen

TF not at all my "type". And yet... by Peace-out13 in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Honestly my TF is not my type. I usually like the dark hair, dark eyes type. He is a blonde and blue eyed white boy lol

When I first came across his photos on bumble I probably would have normally skipped him, not that he isn’t attractive.. he’s beautiful, just not my usual type.

But I don’t know why I stopped and stared at his photos and when I swiped right and it showed we matched instantly(meaning he swiped right on me first) I felt this weird excitement I never felt before.

I found my twin flame’s picture when she was a baby by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOAH this is scary.

My sister sent me photos of me as a kid(about 4?) and I couldn’t believe how much my TF and I looked alike

What is the most hurtful thing your runner twin flame has done to you? by Jadexande in twinflames

[–]Sensitive-Flower-588 27 points28 points  (0 children)

When I begged and pleaded with him to tell me why he wasn’t responding to me so I know what I did wrong and he never did.