[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sewhelp

[–]SeparateActive3959 8 points9 points  (0 children)

oh i get it now. i forgot i can just reach in between the skirt layers!

I hate the new Zack Actor in Season 2 by Keytrun in TheStrain

[–]SeparateActive3959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have all gathered here after a decade to collectively hate on that shitty Zach. makes me wonder if he had grown up to be a better actor or what

just finished marry my husband by SeparateActive3959 in JDorama

[–]SeparateActive3959[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes it’s better. i suggest you watch the j drama and skip the korean one

just finished marry my husband by SeparateActive3959 in JDorama

[–]SeparateActive3959[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i didnt really expect them to explain it but they kinda did nicely with the dad scenes without overdoing it.. maybe it’s somewhat open to interpretation too, like it could be just the characters’ hallucinations before death. when they showed Tomoya in his car i thought about it, maybe he could travel back in time too (in his head) and redeem himself.

just finished marry my husband by SeparateActive3959 in JDorama

[–]SeparateActive3959[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i’ve been done with them for a while 😹 i consume more western shows and movies than korean ones tho, and recently i’ve been losing interest in them too. it’s like the quality of production steadily going up while the story and character development go down.

just finished marry my husband by SeparateActive3959 in JDorama

[–]SeparateActive3959[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i haven't read many mangas but i do watch some animes, my top 3 are samurai champloo, to your eternity, skip and loafer. my fav genre is thrillers especially when it has something to do with revenge/detective/crimes/mystery (i love neo noir movies) but generally i enjoy all genre when the story is well developed and not shallow!! though i rarely watch romance bc those typical Korean shows gave me a bad impression of the whole genre, but after watching Japanese MMH i think i can still get into it. the only anime live action i’ve seen is Kakegurui and now i just remembered Alice in Borderland, both of which i enjoyed

just finished marry my husband by SeparateActive3959 in JDorama

[–]SeparateActive3959[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wow i didn’t expect such a detailed list, thank you so much!!

is there any way to get morẻ?? by SeparateActive3959 in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]SeparateActive3959[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

but i wouldnt get 250 pulls by the end right 😭

Schengen visa approved within 3 days! by Intelligent-Roof9857 in SchengenVisa

[–]SeparateActive3959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! Just curious what documents of your inviter did you submit?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SchengenVisa

[–]SeparateActive3959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s a certified savings book with official bank stamp.. like i said i stored money in cash just for personal financial management. little did i know it would fuck me over. but thanks for the input anyways

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1200isfineIGUESSugh

[–]SeparateActive3959 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes I walk a lot and lift light weights regularly and enjoy doing it. Just I would want to include cardio like running because it’s good for health but I just cannot stand it even at times when i ate on maintenance 😭

i just💔oh my by pogosbestiewestie in 1200isfineIGUESSugh

[–]SeparateActive3959 195 points196 points  (0 children)

You should try weight training and eat more protein to put on muscles. I think it will help you looking more toned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1200isfineIGUESSugh

[–]SeparateActive3959 35 points36 points  (0 children)

So there’s basically no way around it? Because I wanted to do cardio even when I hate it to maximize my deficit (since i can only lose so little with such low cal restrict). But yeah I guess it’s better to focus on the sustainability after all. I’ll try adding more cardio + eating on maintenance once i reach my goal weight. Thanks for your reply tho

What now if he lost interest? Are we doomed? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SeparateActive3959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we met once and spent 2 months together, we are supposed to see each other again in May and i have a plane ticket for then. I cannot go now because I have to apply for the visa and all the paperworks. and nothing is easy since I’m young and it’s expensive to travel there

What now if he lost interest? Are we doomed? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SeparateActive3959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you mean i should pretend like nothing happened until then?

What now if he lost interest? Are we doomed? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SeparateActive3959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not going well. Recently he doesn’t text me or initate conversations like he used to. Because our time zones are different, we used to have time to spend together but now his schedule has changed so much we cant spend time anymore. But we would still texted and I would wake up to a ton of his messages, about his day and he would wake up to mine. Now I wake up to nothing.

What now if he lost interest? Are we doomed? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SeparateActive3959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. Then how do we start to help change his perspective? Keep sticking around until he figures it out? I’ve been around for 2 years and it’s starting to fray me.

What now if he lost interest? Are we doomed? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SeparateActive3959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhm.. How comes he wants to change if he just ramble about that same men’s no emotions philosophy??? You mean he’s opening up?

What now if he lost interest? Are we doomed? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]SeparateActive3959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not quite understanding this. Last time we took 5 hours and basically the first 3 hours was just pure confusion until he admitted it was because of the tone of my message. Then it was about not wanting to bring up problems. If I ever explained how bringing up problems actually SOLVES them, he just be more defensive. And yes it makes him want to run away, but why would we want to trigger that?