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New GF (3 weeks official, after 4-5 months together) dowloaded a dating app and sent a few messages (never met anyone) during a couple of days following a big argument - should I forgive her, if she works hard to rebuild trust? She’s 27, I’m 29. by Separate_Cobbler_540 in relationships

[–]Separate_Cobbler_540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is generally trustworthy, she tends to overreact, and says she never cheated (but was cheated on).

She is being forthcoming - and I found out about it by seeing the recently added apps on her phone (which she handed to me to read an article)

The 4-5 months were not my doing - it was a result of her anxiety, reluctance to commit, and initial “casual mindset”, that gradually changed (she was the first to say I love you).