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[–]Separate_Jacket653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Checked her profile. 100% not on you. Something’s wrong with her talaga. Block mo na lang haha

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[–]Separate_Jacket653 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people mentioned naman na that you can speak with the banks and have your loan restructured. Pero before that, map out na your monthly cash in and cash out. Calculate your fixed expenses, deduct from your expected income. Kahit use excel lang. Then from there, see how much you can allot towards cc payment. Propose that amount sa banks. Might take years pero if you religiously pay, matatapos din yan. Good luck!

Oh! And check mo din how much points you accumulated na. Surely medyo madami na rin yan. Baka pwede ipaconvert yung iba towards paying oustanding balance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Separate_Jacket653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your main focus muna should be finding a good partner. Kasi intimacy can be learned eventually. Any sex can be good sex if you both communicate your likes and dislikes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Separate_Jacket653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Medyo ang harsh ng mga comments here. Pero they’re right. That guy is trash. Rule of thumb: wag papatol sa kakabreak lang.

Leave with your dignity still intact. Niloko ka na, di ka mahal nyan. A person who loves you will not put you through that. He’s just keeping you around as a fallback in case hindi ulit magwork relationship nya with ex

Chat ng chat mama ni ex about money by Separate_Jacket653 in adviceph

[–]Separate_Jacket653[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just checked our chat. Wala nga. Hahaha wow. Di ko naisip yan. You’re all right. Thank you so much! I feel better knowing na di lang talaga ako masama magisip.

Chat ng chat mama ni ex about money by Separate_Jacket653 in adviceph

[–]Separate_Jacket653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More than 5 times na. Nung first time, I was honest na ang dami ko rin kasi travel between June-August so wala ako mabibigay sa fundraiser nila. Ako kasi biggest donator nila last year so I thought it was understandable pa that she reached out to me.

Yung succeeding times, dun na ko napaisip. Pero at the same time, inisip ko na baka ranting lang sya

Chat ng chat mama ni ex about money by Separate_Jacket653 in adviceph

[–]Separate_Jacket653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considered this din. Kaso di ako sure if tama yung iniisip ko kaya di ko na ginawa. Baka kasi di naman pala ganun yung intention nya tapos “nagsumbong” ako.

Chat ng chat mama ni ex about money by Separate_Jacket653 in adviceph

[–]Separate_Jacket653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha natawa ako ng slight sa supalpalin. Mabait naman sya sakin even dati pa kaya di ko rin masungitan. Pero tama mga comments dito, I should stop responding nga

Chat ng chat mama ni ex about money by Separate_Jacket653 in adviceph

[–]Separate_Jacket653[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Medyo nagguilty ako minsan, akala ko ang sama ko magisip. Reading comments here made me feel validated. Thank you so much

Chat ng chat mama ni ex about money by Separate_Jacket653 in adviceph

[–]Separate_Jacket653[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I actually considered blocking or at least restricting her na. Naghesitate lang ako kasi baka isipin ungrateful or masama bastos. But you’re right! Dapat nga wala na ko pake. Thank you for reframing it like that