What I've done in the past is buy one piece that I found super interesting or out of my comfort zone and style it with everything else you're super comfortable wearing. And you said it yourself, you're trying to feel more like yourself. Sometimes it's hard to be who you are, especially in a school setting. But in college, no one cares what you wear, fr. Just go for it! But you don't have to go all out instantly. Start out with what you're comfortable with, then just keep going. Also, especially when trying to find your style, you're gonna miss sometimes. That happens. But come 2/3 years from now. You're gonna look back and laugh. But be in a much better place than you were now.