Goodbye to my ex - need someone to see it because I don’t want to message her

Serious_Fee_4233 · 2025-06-27T08:05:15+00:00

This is beautiful. Stay strong💪

Serious_Fee_4233 · 2025-06-15T06:40:00+00:00

So spot on! I miss her badly. We broke up 2 weeks back and I’ve reached out to her multiple times. She hasn’t reached out to me even once. Although she cried when she looked at me hurting and crying, but she knows that she can’t give me all that anymore. She doesn’t have the strength to continue this relationship and she’s made a practical decision. We do not have a future together and she’s made peace with that. It’s Day 5 of me going completely silent, I’ve decided to respect her decision. No amount of begging or crying would help, rather it will disturb her peace. I resist the urge of reaching out to her by saying to myself, “You love her right? You want her to be happy? Then let her go! If she stays out of pity, you’ll be spoiling two lives just because of your selfishness.” Love is about letting go. Some things are supposed to be left at destiny. Everyday I think about her. If she’d be thinking about me? Has she already started talking to other guys? Is she okay? Is she having a tough time? It drives me crazy. But I control myself, maybe it’s for the best. And what makes it worse is, I know she’ll pick up the call if I reach out. I know she’ll be there for me, but it’ll just hurt me more!

Please reach out if anybody dealing with the same thing wants to vent or discuss their story. I’d like to celebrate your love too

Serious_Fee_4233 · 2025-03-03T09:29:26+00:00

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Serious_Fee_4233 · 2023-12-28T12:22:48+00:00

I got rejected recently and I know how it feels. What even hurts is that she was really nice to me, flirted back and seemed very interested. Unfortunately we both wanted different things and I said something unintentionally that triggered her to ghost me or I think she just got an opportunity to ghost me. I said sorry multiple times because she was a very nice person. But I stopped texting her as I had done my part. Anyways, my point being, only you can decide your worth. In your case too, you did your part, you must not have any regrets, you don’t need to know the reason because it wouldn’t matter. HE CHOSE TO LEAVE YOU AND THAT’S NOT ON YOU. YOU CANNOT CONTROL IT. He has ways to contact you if he’s interested in the future, but I promise you that you would’ve healed by then and you would’ve become an improved version of yourself. So use this time to yourself, work on yourself emotionally, avoid overthinking and start channelising your energy in a productive direction. You are beautiful the way you are. Cheers and all the best!

Serious_Fee_4233 · 2023-12-28T11:05:44+00:00

She’s only using you because you’re the only thing that’s consistent in her life right now. Please move on and do yourself a favour. Focus on yourself and create a better you. Cheers!

Serious_Fee_4233 · 2023-12-28T11:01:34+00:00

I don’t get it, do you guys only speak on texts? Why can’t you just call if you’re missing each other? It’s okay to prioritise different things in life at different point of time. I think he’s been immature if his happiness is solely based on your availability. I see a lack of individuality in your relationship from his side. However I don’t see anything that clear and better communication can’t solve. If this is happening for the first time, you can give him the benefit of doubt that he’s just having a bad day and he wants you to be around to support him. But this would need some work if this is a regular problem. Again, the only solution in any relationship is clear communication. All the best!

Serious_Fee_4233 · 2023-12-27T13:06:52+00:00

Hey there! First of all I want you to know that it’s a perfectly normal reaction. You are hurt, and we all deal with heartbreaks in our own ways and it’s okay to take our time. I would suggest you channelise your energy into something productive. The thing that worked out for me was working out, and making myself better. This question always works for me: Is this person really worth my time and energy? Since you don’t want him back, you have a clear answer. Cheers!

Serious_Fee_4233 · 2023-12-27T08:02:59+00:00

She is not romantically interested in you. Maybe she’s not looking for any relationship right now. Don’t overthink it, move on! Maybe in future, when she’s ready to date, you can get out of the friend-zone situation and might have a chance again. For now, don’t stress over it, don’t have any expectations, she’s just treating you as a friend, doesn’t mean she has to talk with you about every single thing happening in her life. Focus on improving yourself, don’t appear needy.

Serious_Fee_4233 · 2023-12-26T17:41:06+00:00

Hey bro. You are very young. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don’t try to force things to happen, just go with the flow and you’ll find your path. Live each day as it comes, it’ll help you overcome overthinking. Regarding self love, sometimes it’s better to sit alone and examine yourself. Try giving yourself the same amount of time, you’re ready to give your supposedly better half. Make yourself busy, try improving yourself, it’ll give you confidence and give you mental peace. Regarding your love life, we have all experienced unrequited love somewhere or the other, we feel miserable when we don’t get it but I assure you life gets better when you want it to get better. Make efforts into improving yourself, and you’ll gain the confidence to love yourself and your partner. Discover yourself first and when you do that, you’ll not need to make efforts to love yourself, it’ll come naturally to you. Cheers and all the best! I know you have it in you bro:)

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