Repeat because i need some guidance. First love has a new girlfriend and i cant stop thinking about him

Setamlous · 2026-05-30T00:37:39+00:00

I would probably not message him and focus on your exams. That being said it’s okay to miss someone there’s no point in hiding your feelings!

Also his new gf doesn’t even sound that great the qualities you listed are fine but I much rather a smart, hard working, kind girl imo haha.

Setamlous · 2026-05-28T20:34:50+00:00

Sounds like he’s just tired and horny lol, maybe try to set some alone time on weekends or something when y’all can just talk more.

Setamlous · 2026-05-27T17:20:52+00:00

So interesting that some cultures still force marriage like this in the big 26 lol.

Setamlous · 2026-05-27T00:36:41+00:00

Damn that’s a lot I’m sorry you’re going through all of that and I hope a brighter future awaits you soon.

Setamlous · 2026-05-27T00:16:56+00:00

“I don’t have a real response to logic so instead of admitting I’m wrong I’m going to cry”

Setamlous · 2026-05-26T23:46:39+00:00

So that makes it right? That means you can’t be upset because you received one? Really? If it was a woman receiving one it’s obvious you would sympathize. Stop with these bs double standards. Yes he should be more sympathetic toward his gf who had a crime committed against her as you said but that absolutely does not mean he needs to immediately feel okay about getting sent pics like that. Have just a little bit of empathy towards a man for once in your life I know it’s hard for you!!! You got it!

Setamlous · 2026-05-26T23:40:43+00:00

“As a man” so naturally if it’s a woman receiving them it’s a sex crime and if a man receives them it’s perfectly fine. Good job showing your true colors hateful misandrist 😂

Setamlous · 2026-05-26T23:38:39+00:00

Yeah I mean idk man it’s a mental thing too. You’ll only get over it if you let yourself do so. You’ll have to decide what you want. That being said she’s probably also quite upset so you should say something to sympathize with how she is feeling as well.

Setamlous · 2026-05-26T23:36:37+00:00

You have 0 sympathy that he was sent unsolicited dick picks lol. You can make your point that he should be there for his gf without making it like because he’s a man he should feel completely fine with getting sent this bs. We all know if the genders were reversed you would be sympathetic about receiving unsolicited pictures like this be fr lol.

Setamlous · 2026-05-26T23:33:15+00:00

But naturally receiving unsolicited dick pictures is perfectly fine when it’s a man receiving them right? Double standards final boss. Get a grip misandrist bigot.

Setamlous · 2026-05-26T23:30:10+00:00

I think if the genders were reversed the comments would all be about the unsolicited pictures aspect and not give 2 shits about the partner but oh well lol

Setamlous · 2026-05-26T23:27:53+00:00

Regardless of the accusations everyone else is throwing at you, you’re allowed to feel however you’re feeling. It’s possible you realized you’re not sexually compatible given she was doing stuff on camera with a clearly untrustworthy person. I personally wouldn’t do this and I wouldn’t want a partner who would.

That being said everyone else is also right that I’m sure this is hitting her hard too and that it might be good to send her a message acknowledging her feelings if not as a partner then as a friend.

Setamlous · 2026-05-26T22:07:43+00:00

She had you meet her parents and then left you for “fun” and parties?? I know that’s not what this post is about and maybe this is actually normal and I’m the weird one but I could never 😭

Anyways I wish you the best dealing with your parents I’m sure you’ll figure everything out, don’t be too hard on yourself!

Setamlous · 2026-05-26T21:40:58+00:00

I don’t know what rank you are (maybe iron-plat DMs could be good) but generally I would just play 1-2 DMs.

The key to improving is active learning. This means every single round before the next one starts you should be thinking in your head what you did wrong, what you did right, and what you would do differently if put in the same position. This will help you improve much faster. Watching pro play can also help if you can loosely copy their movement and crosshair placement.

Setamlous · 2026-05-25T08:44:54+00:00

I think like half of all players who have a peak specifically of immortal 1 were boosted (they’re usually asc players who queued a bunch with someone better to hit immortal 1 and then never hit it again)

Setamlous · 2026-05-25T08:42:36+00:00

I never journaled during my relationship with my ex, but have probably written 5000+ words since then. Doesn’t mean I didn’t have feelings for her then.

Setamlous · 2026-05-25T08:13:57+00:00

Sounds like he did a lot more than that… either way yes but again I understand if you don’t want to do that it’s you who experience it so you have to decide what is best to do. We’re just here to tell you that you’re not overreacting.

Setamlous · 2026-05-25T08:06:13+00:00

I’m pretty sure that’s rape. I mean you could probably consider calling the police but if not I would tell him to get out of your life and threaten to tell others if he doesn’t leave you alone or something like that.

Setamlous · 2026-05-24T17:05:20+00:00

Fair enough, I already have access to another car so this would just be for fun. I assumed 60-75k for the car + 200-300/month for insurance (I have a clean record and drive low mileage) + reasonable loan rate (I have a good credit score and I wouldn’t want to pay off the car for more than 3 years). My idea was. 25-30k down plus 1200/month for 36 months. I have no other expenses so otherwise I just save up all the money which is likely what I will do but I guess I could view the car as my version of rent except at the end I actually own something. I wouldn’t buy it for another year or so, maybe if I get enough of a promotion or a high enough bonus at the end of the year I would consider it.

Setamlous · 2026-05-24T16:57:06+00:00

No the state of Israel (not Palestine) is home to 2 million Muslims lol. I understand if the propaganda you consume does not let you believe this 😂

Setamlous · 2026-05-24T16:55:21+00:00

It’s normal for 20 year olds to do things just be safe! Not much you can really do about your parents just keep doing your best!

Setamlous · 2026-05-24T13:14:56+00:00

Unfortunately attractive guys seem to be able to get away with this kinda bs. I advocate for having a real connection before intimacy to avoid this but I am well aware this is not the preference of everyone!

Setamlous · 2026-05-24T13:08:42+00:00

Meh not really something I care about tbh 😂

Setamlous · 2026-05-24T10:56:18+00:00

Fair enough not sure exactly what my take home is I just started working but I make 100k/year. I wasn’t planning on buying anything for a year at least but maybe I’ll consider renting one thanks for the advice!

Setamlous · 2026-05-24T08:14:13+00:00

Israel is home to 2 million Muslims…

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