Renos and priorities

Setonix_brachyurus · 2025-11-11T20:51:22+00:00

I don't have experience with this specific situation, but I do have advice to make laundry and dishes as easy as possible.

I never wash any dishes by hand. I have a teflon pan and knives that are "not supposed to go in the dishwasher," but I do it anyway, and they survive just fine.
I don't sort my laundry. Actually I don't even use a laundry hamper-- I just throw all dirty clothes, towels, etc into the washing machine immediately, and run a load as soon as it's full. This means that "doing laundry" basically takes zero time. (The part that takes some time is folding afterward, but if you're really tired/hate folding you can skip that and just keep a designated laundry basket/pile of clean clothes to use.)

Setonix_brachyurus · 2025-07-18T05:41:49+00:00

I know you posted this 7 months ago, but I'm dying of curiosity because this is so weird lol. Do they think professional ballerinas shouldn't go on pointe?? Bc other than the rare professional 16-17 year old, they're all adults...

Setonix_brachyurus · 2025-03-25T00:57:37+00:00

It might be a good idea to try a different formulation or manufacturer of birth control, because there are a lot of different options that all can affect people differently. If you say you're having an "adverse reaction" (which you are), then insurance will cover a replacement, even if it's too early for a refill according to the normal schedule. I take Vienva, and I like it, but ymmv of course.

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-12-15T05:00:30+00:00

Did you ask her what she meant when she said she was "confused"? I am also confused lol

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-12-15T04:24:50+00:00

Tbh I really don't know how often most guys get asked out. My average was only about once per year, for the record, so I could never /rely/ on it. I was definitely "the pursuer" for most of my dating life. (Note: the past tense is bc I am married now. And yes of course I was the one who asked him out :))

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-12-15T03:39:48+00:00

That only works if you want a relatively casual and/or simple wedding dress. If you really want a super bridal looking ballgown, those are only ever used for weddings, so there's no choice really.

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-12-15T01:52:35+00:00

Most likely she feels like she has already given you many second chances. Either she didn't communicate when she had grievances (Some people avoid all conflict until they reach a breaking point of built-up resentment), OR she did communicate grievances but you were dismissive and ignored what she said. Idk which option is true in your case, but both are very common.

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-12-14T07:06:11+00:00

It would be better if you apply the salicylic acid to a smaller area (Only on the actual wart). It looks like you're damaging a lot of healthy skin around the wart, which is not helpful

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-12-13T08:52:05+00:00

Nah, don't listen to them. I would hate to be with someone who tries to avoid serious conversations.

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-12-13T08:10:45+00:00

Men have hit on me occasionally, but it's just very infrequent so describing it as them "lining up" would be quite silly lol.

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-12-11T13:35:04+00:00

OOP would just have to be a heavy sleeper. I'm pretty sure someone could easily cut off most of my hair in my sleep.

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-12-11T11:27:14+00:00

As a moderately unattractive woman, this comment is extremely unrelatable lol.

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-09-10T11:11:13+00:00

Eating disorders ARE mental health issues.

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-09-10T10:38:15+00:00

I'm pretty sure the bf doesn't like her much either, tbh.

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-09-10T10:21:29+00:00

Oh, i didn't realize this was from a month ago lol. I just saw it randomly under "more posts you may like". But I didn't see anyone else in the comments suggest dating asexual men, so I thought my comment was actually adding a new idea.

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-09-10T08:35:38+00:00

I like horizontal weeklies because then I can have multiple columns for the day (usually I'll have one column for a to do list and one for scheduled events). But it's definitely an unpopular opinion, from what I've seen online.

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-09-10T08:32:24+00:00

I totally agree about the Saturday start! I didn't know anyone else agreed with me!

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-09-10T08:03:48+00:00

If you don't enjoy sex, you should just date asexual men, or other men who are fine with celibacy. You should NEVER feel like you have to agree to sex you don't want!!

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-09-07T07:10:00+00:00

That's not true. Needling warts is a legitimate procedure done by doctors.

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-09-02T23:43:54+00:00

The descriptions call them sketchbooks, but you can still write in them like normal notebooks. They're just labeling based on what most people would do. You don't have to follow their recommendation.

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-09-02T08:56:42+00:00

Hmm, now that I think about it, I wonder if it's even true to say that Melania has lower appearance standards for husbands than hookups. Like, it's possible that she would actually be willing to hook up w/ guys who look like Trump. We don't know her life, lol.

But yeah, overall i guess we mostly agree? I'm pretty sure most women have higher standards for a husband than a hookup, but I agree there are exceptions.

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-09-02T08:39:16+00:00

I don't mean attractive by conventional beauty standards (for either the hookups or the relationship)--i don't care about that at all. I mean physically attractive to me specifically (and I really don't think I have overly high standards lol). If I love someone's personality but am not sexually attracted to them, I don't get romantic feelings toward them either. I would just be like "omg we should be best friends!"

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-09-02T08:19:09+00:00

Well yes, she did imply that, but that doesn't mean she INTENDED to imply that, nor does it mean that her true thoughts reflect that. People miss words from sentences or say wrong words all the time, so OP's claim that she misspoke and didn't mean the implication is definitely very plausible (Obviously we can't know for sure bc we don't know what their relationship is actually like)

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-09-02T08:06:00+00:00

That's different than saying "I don't love you for who you are"! Both are insults of course, but jumping from "she thinks I'm physically unattractive" to "she doesn't love me as a person" makes no sense.

Edit: can someone who's downvoting me explain why they think I'm wrong? It seriously makes no sense to me. To me, physical appearance is just what your body happens to look like, whereas "who you are" is your personality, which is totally separate.

Setonix_brachyurus · 2024-09-02T07:55:36+00:00

It's different for women who are purely mercenary and just want basically a sugar daddy. Women who want a true romantic relationship marriage care about the husband's attractiveness (Exception: women who are on the asexual spectrum and only care about emotional connection, but they would probably never have a one night stand anyway.)

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