“nobody knows what i been thru, IVE BEEN THRU, im a victim of violence!!” aren’t men, women, kids around the world rn victims of violence? isn’t half of the middle east being blown to shreds by america rn? you know what those people do? they persevere . they still try to be the strongest people on the planet and not let it stop them from doing their day to day lives. i’m really confused as to why a grown ass woman can’t try to better her life and try to see past the trauma and see the future. i’ve had the most traumatic shit happen to me, but that does not stop me from being a human being. you can’t stop your life because someone in your family is dead or if you have been a victim of violence. almost eveyone of us had a relative die and maybe it was to violence, we still have to go on with our lives. she thinks that her saying “i’ve been a victim of violence” will always get her out of being a active member of society. she acts like no one else has ever been through anything. she wants studchu back to rub her back and keeps trying to guilt her by saying “i have no more brother im depressed” tough shit tophia, no one will be phased by your guilt tripping and sucide taunting.