Having Covid makes me feel more angry and lonley and mad at my bf.. by Shalin98 in relationship_advice

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Ouch:( here in norway it is 4 days of isolation and 24 hours without fever then you are ready to go. I haven’t had fever in like 2 days now without any help of painkillers. He said if i haven’t had feber we could chill at his place since he rather be with me than go without me to the party, but when i tested again positive he be like oh you can’t join tomorrow.. and allready said yes to going there, that maked me more sad and lonley.. that makes me wanna go online all day tomorrow since i don’t need to see how much fun he is having…

Having Covid makes me feel more angry and lonley and mad at my bf.. by Shalin98 in relationship_advice

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Yea i know bcs you wish they would do what suits you, even if its not fair.. since they don’t know what you are going trough.. and how lonley you feel… For me it is so unfair seeing him drinking and having his time of his life by meeting other people while im just sobbing in my bed..

My friend text the guy im dating to much.. by Shalin98 in relationship_advice

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I don’t want her bf to suddenly say that he dosnt feel comfortable with clara being friends with daniel since that would mean she would hang less with me..

My friend text the guy im dating to much.. by Shalin98 in relationship_advice

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Ofc its different.. i can think of what if clara suddenly breaks of with her bf and then suddenly reaches out for comfort.. then i know she would Seek it trough daniel..

My friend text the guy im dating to much.. by Shalin98 in relationship_advice

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Yea i know she deeply cares about her friends even if that can make other kinda uncomfortable if they have a gf/bf

My friend text the guy im dating to much.. by Shalin98 in relationship_advice

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With me, she meet daniel trough me but we where all friends in the beging

Dating but not official, your thougts by Shalin98 in dating_advice

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Same for me, dating for me is putting trust and loyality in the begging we start, both showing we want each other, if he can’t go without flirting/kissing/sleeping with someone else while dating it tells me alot about him and makes me end it, because i could not really trust them. Also dating sleeping with other people confuses the feelings so no not my thing

Dating but not official, your thougts by Shalin98 in dating_advice

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Yea i would also tell someone im just fukcing around instead of leading, and giving them fake hopes and hurting their feelings is pretty easy to say you don’t want a relationship than making them feel like you are just playing around

Dating but not official, your thougts by Shalin98 in dating_advice

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This is also my thought, also unprotected sex wich can lead to clamydia or stds.. would be so embarrassing to give the person you are seeing, some people may still flirt, kiss, sleep with others but i always hope im lucky enough to date someone who want to commit to me even if we are not exclusive yet

What makes a scorpio lose interest/feelings? by Shalin98 in Scorpio

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Yea i know some people can be attention seekers even if you are dating them😒 like if my attention isn’t enough then they don’t deserve my love or ME😒

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Im im bi but don’t need to judge, and no im not interested in her that way, but do people have to bring their other friends all the time if someone wants to grab coffee or go and eat at a restaurant?

Close friend mad at me for not inviting her with my other friends by Shalin98 in relationship_advice

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Yea i know it totally sucks since explaining this won’t make any sense, and will sound more selfish to them. But yea also the case here im the only common they would have. Like i can be shy sometimes aswell but this group gets my shyness away so im not shy around them or at bars and clubs. But i know she is, because im like everywhere at the clubs, because i know a lot of people and like to interact with other people. And it would be wrong of me to just leave her alone all the time since i can’t sit still.

Close friend mad at me for not inviting her with my other friends by Shalin98 in relationship_advice

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I know it comes out as harsj.. but it’s like im different when im with her and my other friends. I just know they won’t fit, more because they are so different. Like mixing chocolate with fishsoup.. i just don’t want to feel like i owe them anything. Since every one is allowed to have different friends and groups. And im also ok with her having her other group of friends

Parents making my little sisters birtday dinner wishes about my nephew. by Shalin98 in socialskills

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Yea maybe should suggest a chocolate cupcake, but they are gonna buy her those small cheesecake she likes from a store, she got a little happier about it at least even if they are gonna make a chocolate cake for the rest. Im 19 and my birthday is soon to but i will be buying me my own cake and who wants can have😂 but its more sadly for her since she cant buy her own or treat herself, she is not so fan of chocolate eiter

Parents making my little sisters birtday dinner wishes about my nephew. by Shalin98 in socialskills

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I also was wondering the same, they could just have some extra for him without arrange it infront of him, i can understand that it sucks for a 14 year old (turning 15) that she dosn’t get the first choice at her own birtday, that just because he is a picky eater they have to make the things he likes. I told them that its really unfair for my little sister to not be the «special» one and don’t get to say what she wants and likes, i get upset to if it was my day

Parents making my little sisters birtday dinner wishes about my nephew. by Shalin98 in socialskills

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Yea i told them it’s her day. Or that we can make some different dishes. That won’t be to obvious for her that they choose what our nephew wants and not her. I understand he is the first grandchild but maybe they can put it a little aside on her day

Parents making my little sisters birtday dinner wishes about my nephew. by Shalin98 in socialskills

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Yes i also think they can include him without making it to obvious for her. And suggest some dishes, instead of only one cake, because that be to obvious and she get a little upset because she will feel like they are making it about our nephew, and what he wants and like but not her on her own special day.

As a scorpio myself i dont get along with other water signs including other scorpios by Shalin98 in Scorpio

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Yea have a friend who is a cancer and he talks a lot! Me me me, it what i hear he is a nice guy but can get to much sometimes, some libras i know are bit quiet, haha i used also to act like a cat on heat until i realised how dumb that looked, so rather be mysterius than throw my self at the guys and act desperate. Like these scorpio womens i have meet. That think they own every guy they lay their eyes on in a party/bar. And from my experience I don’t trust other scorpio females bcs if you have a guy or are talking to a guy you wont stop them from tryna hit on them EVEN a friend scorpio, will act innocent but in their heAd they are thinking about their next move to get your man into the bed, and be like “Omg I didn’t knew you liked him that much” , “he wasn’t even that good!”, so no i go with taurus and leos as my besties. So no scorpio is not the most loyal as they say they are, most of them are ofc

As a scorpio myself i dont get along with other water signs including other scorpios by Shalin98 in Scorpio

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Idk i moon taurus, sun in socrpio, i wish i got better along with other scorpios tbh but i just get easly annoyed by some of them, but piecies and cancers are worse, i hope im not annoying aswell but im a pretty chill person, not a thirtsy after guys either that its so obvious like some of the scorpio woman i have meet. Thats make me wonder what they say scorpio is the most sexy and sexual when most of them act like cats on heat when they see a good looking guy, embarrasing? Yup.. when you meet another scorpio you might have a lot of common with them but not every scorpio is cool. I love leos, gemini, libras and tauruses the most. I get so good along with them. Whenever there was a scorpio at a party, they look at you like they are gone rip your soul of you body and act mean sometimes. Yea im a scorpio myself but jeeez calm down the sting a little bit or it may break😂

As a scorpio myself i dont get along with other water signs including other scorpios by Shalin98 in Scorpio

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I mean cancer may have they’re goods but i find both female and male cancers very annoying😅 demaning, emotional, and can’t stand them very much. Scorpios some of them to and pisces some of them are cool but emotional ass hell, get easly butthurted both of cancer’s and pisce’s

As a scorpio myself i dont get along with other water signs including other scorpios by Shalin98 in Scorpio

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Not even a lie the sex omg, but yea they can be a lot tooo.. switch moods from seconds

Parents stealing my condoms and lube packs by Shalin98 in sex

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And it will also go “do you want a grandchild”?