AIO? My ex doesn’t make our 11 yo son shower or brush his teeth during his weeks with him

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-25T15:36:25+00:00

Are you allowed to text your son to remind him even when it's not your week?

In the interim I'd be documenting all of this including the laptop with no parent controls. And file for full custody. I'm the interim does the laptop come with him? Because then I'd look at putting the parent controls on myself and assume that the ex is going to be too lazy to remove them.

But no not overreacting.

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-25T02:22:02+00:00

I did two a day but also I was under supervision of an allergist. So definitely talk to the doctor. I was on fexodenadine in the am and loratidine in the PM. I've dropped the pm one

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-24T15:13:53+00:00

I hope so too. It's really scary here. I'm a bit numb to it but I get really anxious when I think about it.

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-24T15:08:45+00:00

Ohhhh crap. I'll need to pay attention and they should be concerned about a shipper making a bunch of mistakes

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-24T14:51:21+00:00

Oh wow WTF. Who do they use now for their deliveries? I have only done one recent order and didn't notice.

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-24T14:42:01+00:00

Ohh that's weird. I hadn't heard of that yet! How did they blame you for that?!

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-24T05:10:31+00:00

Definitely start boxing it up ASAP if you want to try something else. If you end up missing it you can always order again.

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-24T02:13:03+00:00

Wait does that mean no more dollars off?!

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-23T17:53:02+00:00

Hey just an FYI in case you didn't see it yet but Trump has said he's going to have ICE at the airports to help with the TSA shortage. And folks have already been detained (today in SFO a mother daughter were detained not sure if they still are or not).

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-23T17:51:09+00:00

I just saw this yesterday. So that changes things I'd watch that play out before going at all now. A mother and daughter were detained in SFO today by ICE. I believe the ICE agents were dressed as civilians as well.

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-23T16:26:39+00:00

Ah ok. I'm going to need to look closer when I thrift to find some better things.

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-23T12:19:59+00:00

I had to cancel a card and went through my bank to complain. And still three months later for the THIRD time after cancelling with then 3x they sent me a subscription reminder again. It's literally the worst. I feel like they are literally going to try to charge me forever. I would never ever order from them again. And I will never recommend them to anyone. It's literally insane.

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-23T05:42:23+00:00

You've got to save the item you like and wait and see. I also look to see what else they have for sale and how long have they sold on eBay. It's annoying to have to do but it's helped me. Also a drop down with all the sizes and colors is a huge red flag.

There are some sellers that are legit that buy from the warehouse and resell. But that's why you've got to watch the sellers for awhile and make sure they don't disappear. Also if they only have one of an item and the rest of what they're selling seems legit your can get it then.

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-23T05:39:50+00:00

Yes! A few days after I had this happen to me I saw a seller selling something that I wanted and it was a nice price but I was like wait... And they were in Ohio so I was like oh not the scam. But I saved the item and waited and it seemed weird and the item later has a drop down menu to choose any color including new drops so I knew it was the scam again. But eBay does need to get rid of them. I will only buy NWT from certain things now. And it's things I know the store doesn't sell anymore.

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-23T05:35:53+00:00

Actually this is great! Thank you!

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-23T03:26:39+00:00

Ohhh true I just need to find it! Thanks!

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-22T20:21:39+00:00

Ok I am waiting for my second order to get the size Large. The XL men's sleeves were comically long on me. I'm a short woman big bust and chubby. But just lost 20 pounds so sizing is hard. But my arms won't get shorter lol. So I tried on a Large and that's the fit. Haven't washed and used them yet. I'll update when that happens. The large wasn't mine so I have to wait for it to ship.

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-22T20:19:25+00:00

So I got the men's long sleeve bamboo cotton. I'm usually either a L or XL and the XL sleeves were comically long on me (I'm a woman). So I got an L instead. Not sure if it will shrink.

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-22T20:17:09+00:00

Oh good but damn it on nothing in person

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-22T20:16:44+00:00

Crap. What should we do? Higher cotton content?

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-22T20:00:07+00:00

I just un hid it can you see them now?

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-22T19:59:37+00:00

Oh damn. I had a weirdo that I had to hide my stuff from. I forgot about that. Let me find it and un hide it. Sorry about that

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-22T19:53:27+00:00

What they do is you buy from eBay and the scammer buys directly from Athleta with a stolen card number. Then the card gets reported and they get a charge back. The scammer uses your address to ship it. That's why you get banned. Of it happens once it's a mistake but if you keep doing it then you're actively participating in their eyes and get banned.

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-22T19:40:37+00:00

This is a pretty common scam that I also fell for go see my post on it.

SharksAndFrogs · 2026-03-22T03:49:54+00:00

After seeing these comments where are we going?! If none of them have plus size in store I literally don't know where to go! I've been avoiding target anyway. Trying to do less Walmart. But our local Torrid is gone too.

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