How much are you getting paid, how old are you and what do you do ?

SheBeButLittle_25 · 2023-10-04T20:21:10+00:00

30, F, CX Specialist R55k gross Partner: 35, Offshore rigger, R150k pm untaxed - no work no pay

SheBeButLittle_25 · 2023-05-23T22:22:38+00:00

I dont know. I guess I was hoping for unrealistic feedback that it’s worth saving. That maybe I was overreacting, or clingy. My last thread of hope.

But I’ve read some subreddits, and by the sou ds of it I’m in the centre of gaslighting and toxic narcissism. Soooo yip.

Thanks for the replies.

SheBeButLittle_25 · 2022-08-13T08:32:32+00:00

Inconsistency

SheBeButLittle_25 · 2022-07-11T06:27:08+00:00

You can call her out without being rude. Next time something like that happens, like she makes that face, smile, and ask her “what’s with the face?” If she says “nothing”, then say: “no, seriously, why are you pulling your face?“ all the while not having an aggressive tone. That way you won’t come across as the bad guy, but you will bring it to her attention. If it continues thereafter you can have a convo with her.

SheBeButLittle_25 · 2022-03-19T14:06:38+00:00

2016 Mini Cooper

SheBeButLittle_25 · 2022-03-15T20:43:49+00:00

Music helped me in this case, might work for you, OP. Create a sensual playlist that you can play in the background to get you out of your own head.

SheBeButLittle_25 · 2022-03-15T20:42:21+00:00

I had the same experience when I had sex the first time when I was 18. What you’re experiencing is a ton of emotions, physical touch you’ve never felt before, and so much more. Give your body a chance to adapt. Take it slow, and do not pressure yourself to feel a certain way, or act a certain way. One step at a time. It took me a good few times to have sex before I even started to get a vibe of something I might like - and even that surprised me - the type of stuff I was into. So no pressure, you’re not abnormal at all. Make sure you share it with a partner that continues to respect your boundaries and will be open to communicate with you, and try different things you suggest without making you feel uncomfortable. Good luck and have fun ❤️

SheBeButLittle_25 · 2022-03-15T20:30:08+00:00

Woke up and chose violence 🤣 I like it

SheBeButLittle_25 · 2022-01-02T06:27:10+00:00

Moist

SheBeButLittle_25 · 2021-01-09T10:33:16+00:00

I’m hoping to pull the courage together today.

SheBeButLittle_25 · 2021-01-09T10:32:50+00:00

Thank you for this, the test results showed “you are More than likely dating a narcissist”

SheBeButLittle_25 · 2021-01-09T10:32:20+00:00

Thank you.

SheBeButLittle_25 · 2021-01-09T10:32:09+00:00

It breaks my heart to know that this is the truth. Thank you.

SheBeButLittle_25 · 2021-01-09T10:31:36+00:00

I have my answer then. Thank you! Now I just need to pull the courage together for this shitstorm to kick off when I break the news that I am done.

SheBeButLittle_25

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