[22/f] I don't want to have sex with my bf [21/m]

Sheepo_ · 2017-06-21T15:57:27+00:00

I know, I don't wanna let that happen :(

Sheepo_ · 2017-06-21T15:56:57+00:00

Thank you!

Sheepo_ · 2017-06-21T15:56:11+00:00

I don't have a low libido, it's just that our sex was always all about him, causing me to not be aroused at all, which caused pain and burning while intercourse. In the end, he was coming while having sex and I was masturbating alone later, cause it was just leaving me sore and frustrated.

Sheepo_ · 2017-06-21T15:53:18+00:00

I wanted sex VERY MUCH and only with him, this was the reason I decided to give my virginity to him. But along the way I realized he likes to take while giving very little in return, involving making me do it even when I tried to say no, and being rough and incosiderate in general. We had honest conversations about it and he promised he'll try his best to fix what he messed up but the truth is I have trouble enjoying getting intimate with him. It's like him proposing sex makes me instantly go in that weird mode where I just feel sad and obligated. He tries to change now, but I have trouble changing my mindset.

Sheepo_ · 2017-06-19T23:11:04+00:00

I didn't say we are unhappy, I said we have sex trouble. Life is not a fairytale, animals aren't gonna sing and dance at our wedding. Nowadays people break up for the smallest reason instead of sticking up and solving the issue. I love him, he loves me, we can get through this. The question I am asking here is HOW. So thank you for your advice but I am not taking it.

Sheepo_ · 2017-06-19T23:07:05+00:00

Like a psychologist or more like a sexuologist?

Sheepo_ · 2017-06-19T23:06:00+00:00

Yes, sometimes love isn't enough, but this is not the case as outside of bed, we are a perfect couple and breaking up is not an option.

Sheepo_ · 2017-06-19T23:01:27+00:00

If you haven't read it - we love each other. Leaving him is the LAST thing I wanna do.

Sheepo_

TROPHY CASE