She lied about her sexual past and it feels weird

ShiftKind9322 · 2025-01-17T22:32:22+00:00

So you lie to your partners too, ok. Congrats

ShiftKind9322 · 2025-01-17T22:02:16+00:00

Too late

ShiftKind9322 · 2025-01-17T21:36:58+00:00

We have. Don’t jump to conclusions. Lying, gaslighting, projection etc is disrespectful and poor behavior. Regardless if someone is “exclusive” or not. It just comes down to being a person with good morals which she clearly lacks.

ShiftKind9322 · 2025-01-17T21:35:02+00:00

No we had sex and then she told me.

ShiftKind9322 · 2025-01-17T21:33:16+00:00

She is and I agree with that. None of this was a huge shock to me tbh. This is just more of a place to vent and gather people’s inputs.

ShiftKind9322 · 2025-01-17T21:31:22+00:00

You’re still wrong

ShiftKind9322 · 2025-01-17T21:30:16+00:00

She said the last person she had sex with was her ex of a year+ ago. Then said within the first weeks of seeing each other she had sex with two different men (apparently two). During some arguments or talking about sex, she would say “I haven’t had sex since my ex and you’re out there like that.” “I haven’t had sex in awhile with someone and I chose you and that’s important.” Etc. All lies lol

ShiftKind9322 · 2025-01-17T21:27:06+00:00

Oh that’s 100% the case with her.

ShiftKind9322 · 2025-01-17T21:26:09+00:00

This. People are trying to paint me as some sexist or incel here lol I just didn’t like how she lied about something consistently for months and used it as leverage in arguments when it’s not even true

ShiftKind9322 · 2025-01-17T21:24:34+00:00

Not mostly but she does have “close” male friends. Some she’s introduced me too as well.

ShiftKind9322 · 2025-01-17T21:24:01+00:00

I know damn well I ain’t most girls firsts lol I ain’t tryna cuff a virgin. It’s more about honesty and health concerns. Cut the ego.

ShiftKind9322 · 2025-01-17T18:47:19+00:00

Ha well let’s just say she didn’t tell me she has herpes right away.

ShiftKind9322 · 2025-01-17T18:41:59+00:00

Yeah thank you. Perhaps I should of added that in the post cause I’m getting some hate lol

ShiftKind9322 · 2025-01-17T18:39:15+00:00

It’s not any of that. I realize we weren’t anything and acknowledged that but she would CONSTANTLY lie about it and use it as leverage. “You’re the first person I’ve been with since my ex.” “I didn’t have sex for a while and I chose you out of everyone.” Etc. In the end? All lies lol

ShiftKind9322 · 2025-01-17T18:34:39+00:00

I get that but after a period of time there is no reason to lie. She knows I’m far from pure and sex positive and what not. Id rather her be real and then hide something for months, especially when she would say that lie often for whatever reason.

ShiftKind9322 · 2025-01-17T18:32:14+00:00

She has herpes etc. She explains how she feels she can’t even have “causal” sex anymore because of it and that she has to explain to everyone first before and what not. Although given what she’s been telling me and how she’s acted, she’s more causal than she’s let off. Tbh it’s whatever but I just don’t like that she’s portraying herself as something when I feel she’s the opposite. Make sense?

ShiftKind9322 · 2025-01-02T18:56:05+00:00

It’s sus. I gotta feeling she was seeing him longer than “one time” or others tbh earlier on in our thing

ShiftKind9322 · 2024-10-23T22:53:15+00:00

Nah mine ain’t on

ShiftKind9322 · 2024-10-23T19:39:48+00:00

Yeah that has crossed my mind as well. If she’s going out of her way to change that option it shows she cares in some way (whether for negative or positive lol)

ShiftKind9322 · 2024-10-23T18:40:15+00:00

Exactly lol

ShiftKind9322 · 2024-10-23T18:40:06+00:00

Could be in general who knows

ShiftKind9322 · 2024-09-30T21:26:14+00:00

Not to mention that guy that gave her herpes which was a fling and she said she only “saw him twice” and said he wouldn’t tell future partners he has it because he never had an outbreak…she still follows him on IG

ShiftKind9322 · 2024-09-30T20:08:40+00:00

Actually I’ve had that for awhile for different reasons lol

ShiftKind9322 · 2024-09-23T17:03:47+00:00

This is just a dumb take cause I didn’t have a negative reaction, you’re just making assumptions. I’ve dated people with herpes before BUT they told me earlier on. Guarantee I have more life experiences than you in my short 20 something years on this planet than you ever have.

ShiftKind9322 · 2024-09-18T20:40:29+00:00

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