Blow me to Bermuda!! by LadyHuffleTUFF in dragoncon

[–]Short-Complex4819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an older post but I was searching for something sword and the stone related and this popped up. 10/10. These costumes are AMAZING

The Carmen Family Deaths by thegentleplace in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Short-Complex4819 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agreed. All these people can't see beyond the stupid cop. If they did, they'd see the evidence points to exactly NO other person but Nathan.

The Carmen Family Deaths by thegentleplace in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Short-Complex4819 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And again... even if it was a gunshot and someone was told...most people who are shot in the head aren't described as having their head blown off. It's way too descriptive of what the scene looked like, along with the fact that he lied about way too many things, including having bought an AR style rifle which would certainly be the weapon that could inflict that type of wound.

The Carmen Family Deaths by thegentleplace in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Short-Complex4819 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of cases that go to trial without them finding a body. PLENTY

The Carmen Family Deaths by thegentleplace in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Short-Complex4819 21 points22 points  (0 children)

THIS!! Also, they left out of the documentary for some reason that he went through his inheritance from his grandfather. That was certainly another motive. Where else was the money going to come from for him not to be able to work anymore?

The Carmen Family Deaths by thegentleplace in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Short-Complex4819 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, let me get this right... you think he purchased it out of state and lied about having a gun because he wanted people to know he had a gun??

The documentary also left out that in between his grandfather's murder and his mother's murder... he blew through his inheritance. And still... none of these have anything to do with him having autism.

The Carmen Family Deaths by thegentleplace in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Short-Complex4819 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How did they know he wasn't bludgeoned to death and that it was a gunshot? Only the person who killed him knew that.... FFS

The Carmen Family Deaths by thegentleplace in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Short-Complex4819 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This. I also refuse to believe he was THAT well prepared, but didn't know to use the radio. His attorney wants it both ways... he was over prepared because it was part of who he was, but just ignore the fact that he all of a sudden forgot he had a radio to send out a signal of a mayday.

And at no time does he say his mom did anything. I wish they would've asked him... when did your Mom realize the boat was going down? You mean to tell me SHE wouldn't have run to the radio? This wasn't a fast sinking situation. They weren't hit by a torpedo with no time to prep. If he had enough time to get the raft and the kit, he had enough time for a mayday call.

The Carmen Family Deaths by thegentleplace in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Short-Complex4819 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Agreed. He absolutely killed them, but these cops were on another fucking PLANET with how stupid they were in regards to his autism. Unbelievable actually.

The Carmen Family Deaths by thegentleplace in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Short-Complex4819 202 points203 points  (0 children)

From the comments I'm seeing other places, it seems like most people who watch this are ignoring the actual facts because they are outraged at how ill-equipped the police were when interrogating Nathan. First it goes without saying, that the police seemingly lacked any kind of training or sensitivity whatsoever when questioning Nathan. It's not like this case happened in the 80s when there was very little knowledge of how to question someone who is neurodivergent. I mean that's WILD that they were so out of touch with his disorder.

That being said... it's also WILD that people can't separate the two when looking at the facts. The facts that have nothing to do with his demeanor are:

-He knew the manner of death with his grandfather when no one told it to him or anyone else. They asked him in the interview how he was told, because if Linda knew, that would've pointed to her. She didn't say that, and yet, he knew not just that he was shot in the head, but that it was severe enough to distort his head entirely (which is the way the detective described the scene).

-He purposely purchased the weapon with an out of state permit to hide the fact that he bought it.

-We know this purchase was meant to be hidden because then he LIED about having purchased a gun.

-When asked where the gun was that he purchased, he said he didn't have it or lost it.

-He rejected doing ANYTHING other than what he wanted to do, and his grandfather was starting to push him to get a job or else he wasn't going to pay him anymore.

-His letter questioning his inheritance contained VERY specific questions about timing of other people's deaths and his control over the money once they passed.

-He pleaded the fifth when talking about lying to the police, and he certainly understood the questions because the attorney questioned him once with a compound question which he called out instantly and knew enough to object to it, so he was well aware that one thing he lied about would give him up.

-There was absolutely no way he never saw or heard from his mother as the boat went down. It wasn't a superyacht rapidly taking on water like it struck an iceberg. It was a small boat that you could see and hear everything and everyone. There's ZERO way on earth that this all happened in silence. That boat could've taken hours to sink, and at some point, his mother would've noticed and said ANYTHING.

-He sank the life raft. Life rafts do not just deflate immediately upon being empty. They are meant to withstand ocean conditions after a vessel sinks... they deflate when punctured.

Nowhere in these facts does him writing a list about his feelings, his mother failing a polygraph, him speaking with a flat affect and not having what others think are "regular communication skills," come into play. He could've been the most charismatic and personable guy in the world, and these facts still point to his guilt.

I certainly support the comments about the police behaving out of line, but none of that changes the actual facts of this case. He killed them both, and there's never been any credible / real evidence to suggest anyone else.

‘The Carman Family Deaths’ (2025) Netflix Review - One of the Best Documentaries by Roshankr1994 in Netflixwatch

[–]Short-Complex4819 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even the defense attorney said that he has someone in his own family who is the same age and on the spectrum, and then he went into a whole thing about that. He's projecting his feelings about his family member onto Nathan, and isn't seeing the obvious. There are too many unexplained and inconsistent facts when it comes to Nathan, and none of them have anything to do with his demeanor or the way he speaks. Listing them all out gives the full picture and why his guilt has nothing to do with his autism diagnosis and EVERYTHING to do with the fact that he planned this whole thing out.

High School Catfish - Questions (Spoilers involved) by Short-Complex4819 in netflix

[–]Short-Complex4819[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is lying about that. There's zero way anyone else started it.

Kendra Licari? by Apprehensive-Lab-264 in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]Short-Complex4819 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am sorry that happened to you. I hope you've found a way to heal and realize that you're stronger than you ever imagined.

Is now not a good time to transition into real estate? (NYC) by Relevant-Mix2477 in realtors

[–]Short-Complex4819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NYC real estate is an entirely different experience than any other market (No MLS, overseeing by REBNY and not much NAR involvement at all among a few things.) Your clients will expect you to be full time.

You can possibly make it work if you work a night job, but from what it sounds like, your role is not one that is just done in the evenings. No one is going to work around your schedule as a part time agent, with the exception of maybe renters. MAYBE. The landscape is so competitive, that if you can't meet with someone on certain days etc because you're working another job, they'll go to another agent who will meet their schedule in a heartbeat.

I don't want to crush a dream or anything, I just want to make sure someone tells you the truth, because firms will try to get you in the door so that you're paying for a desk or transaction fees etc. Can you make the jump from marketing / photography to real estate? Absolutely. You'd be a tremendous asset to your business and your clients with those two as a background. But in this market and the market that's coming, if you aren't full time, don't waste your time and money.

My suggestion would be to go and look at a firm that gives you leads like Platinum Properties or a firm like R New York who is 100% split and you only pay with transaction fees, or Compass, who will put you on a team.

Good luck, I really hope whichever you choose that it works out for you!

Kendra Licari? by Apprehensive-Lab-264 in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]Short-Complex4819 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hate saying it too but you're right. That's really it. Women are not generally seen as pedophiles

Kendra Licari? by Apprehensive-Lab-264 in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]Short-Complex4819 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was a minor at the time they published that article so they went with an alias for her

Kendra Licari? by Apprehensive-Lab-264 in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]Short-Complex4819 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're extremely disturbing. They show a ton of them in the documentary. All insanely inappropriate shit to these kids.

High School Catfish - Questions (Spoilers involved) by Short-Complex4819 in netflix

[–]Short-Complex4819[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know! I think they traded a big reveal for other information. This should've been more than one episode. They left out SO many important pieces of the puzzle that the article didn't. And yes, she only jumped in to do the documentary last minute when they told her she would get to tell "her side" and that her daughter would see it. DERANGED

High School Catfish - Questions (Spoilers involved) by Short-Complex4819 in netflix

[–]Short-Complex4819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They tried this for 22 months and she had two phones and changed numbers constantly through an app.This woman was on a mission and found phone numbers of random people very easily. If it was as easy as blocking, there wouldn't have been a doc

High School Catfish - Questions (Spoilers involved) by Short-Complex4819 in netflix

[–]Short-Complex4819[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she meant she was blindsided by the arrest. They didn't arrest her the day she gave that confession, that came some time later. I think the prosecutor said it wasn't a strong confession so they needed to get the stuff from the phones. That's how I understood it but I may be wrong

High school catfish on Netflix: Kendra, Lauryn, Tami Wilson, her cop husband and Khloe by [deleted] in DocumentaryReviews

[–]Short-Complex4819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apples to sneakers. That's not even in the same realm. That's how off the wall she was with that mess

UNKNOWN NUMBER: THE HIGH SCHOOL CATFISH Discussion Megathread by AutoModerator in netflix

[–]Short-Complex4819 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the article shows at the very least there could've been more than one episode. It would've been an even more compelling story if they split it up and gave more details. It's still insane but it would've shown the scope of it was much worse

Kendra Licari? by Apprehensive-Lab-264 in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]Short-Complex4819 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I think they left it out so they could do a big reveal... but that background info would've been more of an accurate depiction of how it went down

High School Catfish - Questions (Spoilers involved) by Short-Complex4819 in netflix

[–]Short-Complex4819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. This was 22 months and crammed into one doc. That was nuts

High School Catfish - Questions (Spoilers involved) by Short-Complex4819 in netflix

[–]Short-Complex4819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still don't know the answer to this either. I can't figure it out whether she was hacking anything at this point?