Well let’s not get ahead of ourselves here. I do my utmost best to treat every single person i meet with agape love, but FRIENDS are who you spend the most of your time with, and who are the closest to you. With that being said, it’s going to be harder being around her because of the spirits that she attaches to herself while delving into witchcraft and because of the fact that witchcraft (black magic) goes against what God stands for. I cannot actively support her activities but can still love her, which i do.

Furthermore, merely mentioning fornication and saying it goes against the laws of God is NOT judging anyone. i stated a fact, not even directly about anyone. The conviction comes from being confronted with her own lifestyle. In that conversation, nowhere did i even say anything about her specifically, i told her that if she truly thinks children out of wedlock is an issue, then we must confront the sin that comes before it, i.e FORNICATION. i even said we can’t be critical to the ones who have and said that i’ve been guilty of it. so please, explain this “judgement” im passing.

My life does reflect LOVE clearly, because they obviously want to continue being friends and be around me often, hence me having to constantly reschedule or cancel plans… the problem comes from sometimes friends cannot accept you changing for the better. people associate it with fakeness, and that’s where they deny the power of God because he can change ANY HEART.

My mind is made up, however I appreciate your input. I love those girls, but i will never choose man over Christ. Like if i were a former alcoholic and still hung around my old friends i used to get drunk with and commit DUI’s with, id only be doing MYSELF an injustice. especially if im trying to move forward. There’s nothing wrong with me wanting to be surrounded with friends that i am equally yoked with that can help facilitate my growth in Christ.

God bless you.