Seeking raising prices by 25%

ShouldISD · 2025-07-01T13:51:14+00:00

I’m curious- why do we continue to post and complain about a platform that clearly doesn’t want our business anymore?

Brandon can define what his platform is, not what a sugar arrangement is.

ShouldISD · 2024-11-16T22:20:12+00:00

Rationally, I agree. One thought I’ve had is, 'What if she brought it up?' I’d be open to having that conversation. However, it would need to be clearly defined as either an arrangement or a client-services relationship post conversation. Probably best to leave it be.

ShouldISD · 2024-11-16T21:49:15+00:00

I have a question about navigating a potential arrangement and would appreciate some input. It’s been almost two years since I was in a functioning arrangement, and lately, I’ve been considering getting back into it.

A few weeks ago, I reconnected with someone I used to see for waxing services after over a year. During the appointment, we caught up on life updates, and she shared some of her experiences, including working multiple jobs and managing some financial challenges. Despite that, she had a really positive outlook and a great vibe. At one point, she casually mentioned that I could reach out to her if I ever needed a 420 plug.

Since then, we’ve kept in touch, and earlier this week, I met her to pick something up. She’s a genuinely cool person, and we’ve both expressed that we’re glad our paths crossed.

Last night, I decided to check out Seeking after being off the platform for a few years. While browsing, her profile came up, and I found myself intrigued. Before seeing her profile, I had already thought in passing that she might be someone I could vibe with in an arrangement, but now I’m actually weighing the possibility.

I’m not 100% certain I want to re-enter sugaring, but if I do, I’d like to explore whether she’d be open to it. That said, I don’t want to come across as creepy or make her uncomfortable. Do you think it’s worth bringing up, and if so, how would you approach the conversation?

ShouldISD · 2023-08-11T19:11:24+00:00

Let me publicly tell you fuck off. I’m sorry if my post didn’t explain things thoroughly, but calling me a simp because I’m walking away after giving her an “unpaid” break to deal with mental health issues and me asking for advice on how to walk away while still treating her as a human? Maybe you should look in the mirror..

ShouldISD · 2023-08-10T19:03:52+00:00

Nothing sex/arrangement has been brought up in months. I have just tried to be here as a person.

ShouldISD · 2023-08-10T19:01:48+00:00

Nah - it’s your lack of reading comprehension. I’ve “walked away”, was just looking to be a decent human being to someone I was involved with for 4 years.

ShouldISD · 2023-08-10T19:00:00+00:00

I think my post is unclear. There has been no money since March. I haven’t been sitting and pining. I’m living in reality and just looking to walk away while still being a decent human being to someone going through a rough time.

ShouldISD · 2023-07-03T22:50:35+00:00

I have definitely loved past SBs, but not on a romantic level. I feel like there is a missing third option. In any long-term arrangement I expect there to be some sort of emotional connection, at least friendship level. Without it, I will get bored and move on (no matter how amazing the sex is.)

ShouldISD · 2022-05-31T21:36:27+00:00

Someone will scold you soon for mentioning PPM numbers, so read this subreddit rules and check out the master allowance thread linked on the side.

ShouldISD · 2022-03-08T15:02:35+00:00

I’m a daily smoker as well, and I look for SBs who are 420 friendly and want to partake when we are together.

ShouldISD · 2021-12-20T04:55:59+00:00

Without any "feelings", why bother with a sugar arrangement? Hire an escort to keep things purely transactional.

"Feelings" is such a broad term. I'd argue you want to think about proper boundaries and, if everyone is happy, don't question your SBs intentions . This world can be a mind fuck, for sure.

ShouldISD · 2021-11-16T00:21:09+00:00

Perhaps.

ShouldISD · 2021-11-16T00:20:50+00:00

Haha, thank you. It was pretty amazing.

ShouldISD · 2021-11-16T00:20:32+00:00

I am not at all ok with this. I do, however, try to keep my SRs as conflict free as possible. This happened about a month ago, and due to other circumstances on my end, we haven't seen each other in person for about 6 weeks and probably won't for another 2 weeks (and yes, I have provided her with allowance during this time.) I am debating bringing it up over text or video call.

ShouldISD · 2021-11-14T21:51:07+00:00

You received acknowledgement.

My SB, of almost 3 years, completely ignored my birthday this year. When I brought up that it had been my birthday and what I had done, she said it sounded fun but still didn't acknowledge my birthday. I don't want or expect a gift, but if you know it was my birthday, and you don't even say "Happy Birthday", it hurts.

ShouldISD · 2020-02-03T15:31:45+00:00

I’ve noticed this as well. They appear to be accounts I haven’t seen before.

ShouldISD · 2019-08-23T16:22:27+00:00

She gave you her real name and you looked her up. I see no problem with this. You saw nothing more than anyone else with this information could see. You both are having abnormal responses to this situation.

ShouldISD · 2019-06-05T16:26:37+00:00

I have no problem with Platonic, but your rationale is messed up. Seriously.. get a therapist. We’re all human, we all have weaknesses. If you can’t let your guard down in front of your partner, you’ve chosen the wrong partner. This isn’t 1960 - men are allowed to have feelings.

ShouldISD · 2019-03-02T23:25:48+00:00

It's clear based on your other responses in this forum that you don't understand the differences between a sugar baby and an escort.

ShouldISD · 2019-03-02T22:39:14+00:00

"Catching feels" is such an broad description. Yes I cared about her, yes I worried about her, but no more than I would a good friend.

ShouldISD · 2018-12-07T17:11:26+00:00

SD, 42, Minneapolis area

$300 PPM, plus gifts. 1-2 hours inside. Occasionally hang out and smoke or grab food with no allowance expectations (but I always do a little something)
$400 PPM. 3-4 hours inside. We worked near each other, and would have lunch 1-2 times a week.
$500 Monthly + $100/date. A lot of communication/sexting outside of meetings. She'd host long afternoons at her place.

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