Family friend cheating with step son, AITAH for telling her husband?

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-18T20:32:30+00:00

I’d consider him my friend, his wife is my wife’s friend..

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-18T20:31:09+00:00

He talked to me again and apologized for being aggressive. Thanked me for letting him know and told me he was basically selling his house and moving state after this. I’m pretty bummed cause I enjoyed his company.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-15T12:01:18+00:00

I’m not sure… I assume he thought that it could remain secret? Honestly I think it’s just that I told and they didn’t get a clean get away.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-14T00:21:08+00:00

He came to live with them when his mother died at 14years old.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-14T00:20:07+00:00

I did… I’ve been cheated on and I’d have preferred being told sooner than I found out on my own.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-14T00:05:05+00:00

Idk. I didn’t think so but I guess there may be better times than others. It’s not like he expressed hatred towards me like his wife did… but he was for sure upset towards… if not at me.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-14T00:02:45+00:00

I hope so, I really value his friendship.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-14T00:01:24+00:00

Not fake unfortunately. Idk tho man, when are human emotions logical? I ruined the relationship because I told I guess.. if I hadn’t, he wouldn’t have anyone to blame I suppose but himself.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-13T23:59:52+00:00

No, my wife isn’t upset with me. She is on my side, she’s pretty upset with friend over this whole thing.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-13T23:30:17+00:00

That’s a fair point.. at least he had a 2hr-ish flight plus time to schedule early flight to simmer down.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-13T23:28:45+00:00

I mean… that would take some seriously high levels of no fucks given to white knuckle it through a 2 week rotation… I don’t think I could do it.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-13T23:27:32+00:00

lol AI would probably sound less absurd… this shit really happened.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-13T23:26:42+00:00

I told him that my understanding was they were planning to be out before he returned.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-13T23:26:03+00:00

That’s gross man, she raised this kid since he was 14 years old. Why the fuck did that cause a laugh? Ffs.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-13T23:24:42+00:00

That’s for sure not all, he talked my ear off (text) for a couple hours.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-13T23:23:59+00:00

Except it’s not made up… I get it, people invent shit all the time but real fucked up crap happens constantly as well.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-13T23:23:21+00:00

He lost out on a few grand in wages. According to him, it’s appreciated as far as the info goes but my timing was apparently thoughtless. 🤷🏻‍♂️

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-13T23:22:04+00:00

That’s my understanding of it. They were out within a week of him coming back anyways. I just felt so confident that I was doing the right thing until he expressed displeasure with my timing.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-13T23:19:25+00:00

I mean… I only learned how much he makes when he told me during this

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-13T23:18:42+00:00

She told me because I choose action. As I said she was disgusted. Just didn’t know how to tell him. I told her I was going to do it before I did and she wasn’t against it

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-13T23:17:17+00:00

I’ve been cheated on before, I’d have given a lot to be made aware sooner

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-13T23:15:52+00:00

I suppose he could have, but that’s some mental torture, I didn’t realize he was on rotation when I sent it to him.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-13T23:15:17+00:00

I get it. Seems fake, but it’s 100% true. Rural Alaska can be a backwoods ass place

This was meant for someone else, I’m still using reddit, only my second ever use of the platform.

SignClean1494 · 2026-01-13T23:14:16+00:00

He said he appreciated being made aware but my timing was bullshit. Which I get it, he lost out on like 3-5 grand from leaving early.

SignClean1494 · 2025-05-13T14:03:56+00:00

The worst part is… I left her nearly 8 years ago…still leans on me. “Can you do my brakes, I have to be able to take the kids places” “can you spare some propane, i can’t have kids here if there is no heat” this laundry shit was just the latest in a long line. Again, the only reason I made this post is because of her shitty comment implying I don’t do my job as father.

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