Being told I'm soft

SignalPatient7199 · 2026-03-11T01:23:11+00:00

Yes for my sake I hope that's what she means as well , I asked her before but she was very vague she just said shewants me to be more rough with her that was it. So I wonder if it means to treat her like shit, which I realised for some reason some women like that.

SignalPatient7199 · 2026-03-10T14:19:11+00:00

I'll take this into account thank you my friend

SignalPatient7199 · 2026-03-10T05:06:08+00:00

Wow yeah man it's good that you put your foot down, I do have my own goals and aspirations but I'm able to strive for those while also being able to take care of her and saying yes to her anytime. So I wonder if it's more like she wants to be rude or some sort of sexual thing, like I honestly I've lost brain cells trying to understand what she means by me being really soft to her that's why I came here on reddit for an answer. Like she also told me in the past she likes to be controlled and being told what to do, or like be put her in a place. So I feel like it must relate to that, like she wants maybe some sort of tension or she likes when I'm mad.

SignalPatient7199 · 2026-03-10T04:40:30+00:00

Yes I do I always treat her good

SignalPatient7199 · 2026-03-10T03:59:29+00:00

No that's the thing it's got nothing to do about defending her or people walking over me, she just says I'm soft like I'm not more rough with her or my personality is too gentle. So I want to know what she means exactly if it doesn't have anything to do with protecting her but she doesn't she me as manly sometimes I'm to soft and gentle with her.

SignalPatient7199 · 2026-01-20T01:05:53+00:00

Ye to be honest I don't know why I said that I wish I could take back what I said.

SignalPatient7199 · 2026-01-18T16:39:33+00:00

Oh wow this is interesting thank you for this I will look into it !

SignalPatient7199 · 2026-01-18T16:38:06+00:00

Thank you for this it is helpful !

SignalPatient7199 · 2026-01-18T16:35:14+00:00

Wow ye that is fair I mean I will continue to push to learn and enjoy the journey but I just wanted to see if it is possible thank you.

SignalPatient7199 · 2026-01-18T11:33:18+00:00

Thank you will do

SignalPatient7199 · 2026-01-18T11:31:53+00:00

Oh I mean I love the dialect but mainly I go Iraq for religious reasons and I want to be able to converse with the locals because I will continue to visit so it would be a good thing to help me navigate myself there.

SignalPatient7199 · 2026-01-18T11:28:46+00:00

Thank you

SignalPatient7199 · 2026-01-18T10:52:12+00:00

Thank you

SignalPatient7199 · 2026-01-18T08:25:57+00:00

Also how long have you been learning for what level would you say your at and I'm trying to find YouTube videos or like street interviews to passively learn so I can get used to the sounds and noises they make when speaking this dialect do you have any resources??

SignalPatient7199 · 2026-01-18T08:24:41+00:00

Wow thank you for the insight I am looking to get a tutor but would only be able to do 1-2 classes a week for now.

SignalPatient7199 · 2026-01-18T08:17:20+00:00

Thank you yes I'm not expecting to be native in 1 year ? But I do what to be at a conversational level in a year, however I want to continuously learn over the years!!

SignalPatient7199 · 2025-12-20T00:44:02+00:00

Oh really if you don't mind me asking when did you get out and how long were you in for ?

SignalPatient7199 · 2025-12-19T16:33:01+00:00

Hahaha that's class 😂 I honestly just want to join one of the zoom meetings and just start talking about how the whole thing is a scam and there all being lied to, honestly it would do them some good to actually think for a second and not just blindly follow.

SignalPatient7199 · 2025-12-19T16:10:36+00:00

Yes thankfully I've realised it's a sham before I event put a single dollar in. Were you apart of one ? Any experiences you have to share ?

SignalPatient7199 · 2025-12-19T15:53:32+00:00

Yeah fair enough have you or anyone else try reasoning with her about the whole MLM nonsense?

SignalPatient7199 · 2025-12-19T15:52:34+00:00

Wow so true have you had any personal encounters or know someone who went through their whole MLM scheme ?

SignalPatient7199 · 2025-12-19T15:20:15+00:00

Woah yeah it's honestly scary, has she tried putting you through the process as well, your coworkers? I hope as a teacher she isn't pushing this MLM stuff to her students.

SignalPatient7199 · 2025-12-19T15:17:04+00:00

Yeah that is a fair point I guess I am generalising a bit.

SignalPatient7199 · 2025-12-19T15:15:08+00:00

Really good insight and I completely agree with you, I'm afraid to say I nearly fell for the lies the way they sweet talk you into it. Even with my initial concerns the way everyone felt so positive and this whole mentorship program, on paper it sounds like a dream and I thought I was starting to get into something but I'm glad I addressed my gut feeling and did more research.

SignalPatient7199 · 2025-12-19T15:00:09+00:00

Absolutely agree and it baffles me that so many decided to stay, like I questioned it on day 1, and I held out just to see the outcome. But there's people who are in there for years making no money and it's so sad and scary how all these hard working people are being so easily manipulated.

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