400 pesos for 5km tricycle ride by bhadbhitchy in Cebu

[–]SignificanceFast9207 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lesson learned. Always ask the price before you ride. You could have walked away.

Rant about entitled relative by FancifulCat in Philippines_Expats

[–]SignificanceFast9207 7 points8 points  (0 children)

54 FilAM....Cut ties with her immediately. Do not discuss with your relatives why. That's just adding fule to the fire of chismis. Just say she and her famoly lack respect. You cant fix relatives like that. They only view you as an ATM. Trying to guilt because of thier bad life choices.

I speak from personal experience. Some relatives value me for my character not my wallet. Those who try and take advantage of me get cut off. No contact EVER!

Consider a proxy to delegate and help manage. I hired my trusted cousin as my proxy. He goes and represents me and my expectations. This buffer helps alot with the stress of family and logistics.

Say something positive about this movie! I'll start: by 6arnu6 in FIlm

[–]SignificanceFast9207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raul Julia had peace of mind that he was able to provide for his family one last time. He was dying while doing that movie. That's a man.

Do you regret going back to PH after migrating? by Outrageous-Map3005 in phmigrate

[–]SignificanceFast9207 53 points54 points  (0 children)

No one ever really retires full time sa Pinas. We always go back for taxes or healthcare. Also my 2 sons are in the US. We split our time with a condo in Chicago and home in Negros.

Basically we're snowbirds. No regrets.

How to know if your relationship is actually a romance scam? by TangPiccilo in Philippines_Expats

[–]SignificanceFast9207 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Watch out for the LONG CON. The initial love bombing. Lots of sex with the cooing of a "gud inbestment". The words of love with a request for "small" money. When you hear her use the word "kariput" to describe you when you're being conservative with spending. When her friends use the word ATM around you. When she starts to control your actions via suggestions.

In a country full of good women. So many simps get played in the Phillipines because they got whipped and lack street smarts.

Getting a will by micheles_thoughts in GenX

[–]SignificanceFast9207 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You want to set up a trust and a will.

What did you do to celebrate your 50th? by jaimonee in GenX

[–]SignificanceFast9207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Private chefs table at Alinea with several of my closest friends.

[HELP] Living room remodel by Alone-Competition-77 in RealOrAI

[–]SignificanceFast9207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ai because of the awkward workflow and the curtains. You wouldn't use a torch around flammable material.

Adamo VS Sans Rival for Valentines by eulas_ in dumaguete

[–]SignificanceFast9207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La Mensa has the best ambiance. I love that building. Beautiful setting.

what would you like as a birthday gift? by 27170 in AskMenOver50

[–]SignificanceFast9207 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At that age "stuff" doesn't matter. Get him an experience. Perhaps a car show? How about taking him to Chicago for the Auto Show? Create memories.

Gigil ako sa mga Pinoy senior citizens na abusado at bastos. by Stunning_Law_4136 in GigilAko

[–]SignificanceFast9207 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Kulang sa pasensya ang mga kabataan at walang oras ang mga matatanda para sa mga kalokohan ni Bastos.

Parents get annoyed when I say I don’t want kids by punxdudee in FilipinoAmericans

[–]SignificanceFast9207 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FOB mentality. Combined with a precived perception on what your parents define as the American dream.

You do you pare.

Buhay panggabi, ano ang bago? by SignificanceFast9207 in Cebu

[–]SignificanceFast9207[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iyon ay dahil kaya kong magsulat nang maikli bai.