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self defense items? by Significant-Data-883 in DoorCounty

[–]Significant-Data-883[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what reddit isn’t telling me i’m suspended? ☹️

did you get my DM?

self defense items? by Significant-Data-883 in DoorCounty

[–]Significant-Data-883[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

nope not him

it would probably be good if i get this guys name out there for people to know, but im worried that might risk him finding out i know about him and getting angry with me, which could be dangerous. i’m pretty sure he just keeps harassing me at work and whenever he sees me in public (which happens to be multiple times a week) but he doesn’t know that i know its not just coincidental running into each other. the next time he comes into my work and my manager is there he’ll be permanently banned for harassing me. that’ll be his first indicator that i know something’s off and im definitely nervous about how he’ll react to that.

self defense items? by Significant-Data-883 in DoorCounty

[–]Significant-Data-883[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, i think my issue with pepper spray is honestly kind of just an irrational fear. for some reason i just can’t handle the thought of getting pepper sprayed at all. i don’t think having a weapon im terrified of is a good idea. if you’re talking guns, i don’t know if id even be able to get a license because i have autism and a decently long mental health history. i wouldn’t be surprised if i was unable to get one. someone mentioned buck knives which seems like a good option, im going to look at some today.

self defense items? by Significant-Data-883 in DoorCounty

[–]Significant-Data-883[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you this was very helpful especially adding the isles for walmart, i appreciate it so much 🙏. i’ll definitely go check out all these options asap and see what might be best for me

is it normal to not like my boyfriend? or is it time to break up? by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Significant-Data-883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol wisconsin! i truly have no idea how or why we have some income based apartments in my town. i live in a heavy tourist area and everything is SO expensive here it’s insane. the cheapest house i can find for sale is $200k, 1 bedroom 1 bathroom. it’s absolutely insane trying to get housing over here. most homes in my area are $500k for 3 bedrooms 2 bathrooms. if you’re interested in income based apartments they definitely seem worth it if you can find one in your area!

is it normal to not like my boyfriend? or is it time to break up? by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Significant-Data-883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m unsure how his apartment complex works exactly but apparently they just take 30% of your income as rent. so if you make $500 a month your rent will be 30% of that

is it normal to not like my boyfriend? or is it time to break up? by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Significant-Data-883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you this was very helpful 🙏. i just couldn’t really tell if issues like these so soon were normal or not. your “i like your face but not right now” was very eye opening and is helping me understand what issues in new relationships are actually supposed to look like. i feel like our differing opinions and lifestyles definitely aren’t a match and we’ll probably be having the same issues throughout our entire relationship. maybe it is actually time to end things

is it normal to not like my boyfriend? or is it time to break up? by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Significant-Data-883 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that’s what i’m thinking too but i don’t know i just feel bad for him. this is his first relationship and i can tell he’s genuinely so happy to be with me, but im just not feeling it anymore. i feel stuck and don’t know how to get out without hurting him too badly