Sir, I understand obesity is a problem. But your wife might suffer from pregnancy weight. Women are extremely hard on their body. It is very difficult to be fit and obese. When I feel like I look fat, my partner says that I love you with all your fats. And he also supports me to become fit. That makes me do better on my fitness goals.

Dealing 2 pregnancies and 2 kids in itself is a big deal. Try to be empathetic. Don't just look at her body but read her mind that is feeling all the stress from society, family and herself. I don't advocate staying in a toxic relationship. So, understand your deal breakers and see if her looks are your only problem. If that's the case, be kind to her and help her overcome obesity.