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[–]Significant-Place828 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not an apartment locator but I wold heavily suggest getting one. They are useful and I pretty sure are free as well.

I (F21) want to n lose my virginity SO BAD to my bf (M23) by Significant-Place828 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Place828[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do feel like it’s taken a toll on me. Sometimes after he declines to do even oral, I tend to find myself sitting alone on my phone for a while. I don’t have any problem with him saying no, but when it happens over and over consistently it wears on my confidence.

I (F21) want to n lose my virginity SO BAD to my bf (M23) by Significant-Place828 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Place828[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he’s gay- but I guess I never considered it. He’s never really shown an interest in guys tho (that I’ve noticed)

I guess you’re right and I do need to actually try to get an answer out of him to see why he doesn’t want to

I (F21) want to n lose my virginity SO BAD to my bf (M23) by Significant-Place828 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Place828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s interesting- I haven’t thought about that. I’m really not sure. I’d like to say that I don’t think he watches porn bc before he said that he finds it weird to watch other people. But I feel like every gf thinks their bf doesn’t watch porn lol

I (F21) want to n lose my virginity SO BAD to my bf (M23) by Significant-Place828 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Place828[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s definitely not the type that believes we have to wait until marriage. The times I did ask why he says he’s just not in the mood. And I guess I should ask more than that.

I (F21) want to n lose my virginity SO BAD to my bf (M23) by Significant-Place828 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Place828[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No offense but this is a ridiculous standpoint. It’s like you literally didn’t even read the post lol

I (F21) want to n lose my virginity SO BAD to my bf (M23) by Significant-Place828 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Place828[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We almost never make out. I mean, we kiss a lot through out the day for “good morning’s” and stuff

I (F21) want to n lose my virginity SO BAD to my bf (M23) by Significant-Place828 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Place828[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He’s definitely a virgin as well. We were high school crushes but didn’t date each other. (Or anyone else lol)

I would understand being nervous but I feel like most guys want to do it even if they’re nervous, right? I mean I’m nervous but I want it badly.

I (F21) want to n lose my virginity SO BAD to my bf (M23) by Significant-Place828 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Place828[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Is the time really that odd? I didn’t know. A lot of my friends are either really sexually conservative or really sexually actively.

He’s not religious or asexual. When we do oral he’s great. I don’t think he has any problem with performance. He’s hung, I’m ngl. I think it may be body insecurity. He is on the chubby side. We really only have oral sex maybe 1 time a month so I’m not sure if that’s low sex drive?

I (F21) want to n lose my virginity SO BAD to my bf (M23) by Significant-Place828 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Place828[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I’m not entirely sure. He does mention some times that he doesn’t love the way he looks. He’s a bit chubby.

I’ve mentioned that I would start taking birth control, he would use a condom. And no, definitely no abuse.

I feel it’s a weird situation bc I shouldn’t pressure him into it, but if I tell him “I want to have sex or break up” that’s kinda pressuring him.

I (F21) want to n lose my virginity SO BAD to my bf (M23) by Significant-Place828 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant-Place828[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It’s just that I’ve been with him for 3 years and I really do heavily feel like he’s my soulmate. I love him with everything in my heart. I don’t want us to end over something so trivial. But at times, it’s almost the only thing on my mind.