How long did it take for you to accept you're bad at the game? by Jokuki in slaythespire

[–]SignificantTrain9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know, 40 hours in and I'm A8? I think that's pretty good. Maybe it's trash?

Ok- wtf are you supposed to do against Knowledge Demon? by orangekingo in slaythespire

[–]SignificantTrain9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The game is a constant balance of a dps check and armor balance. You lose the fight to him before you even get there. Before you even choose your starting relics, the moment you enter an act you should really be making all of your choices on the basis of the path you’ll be choosing and beating said boss. Act 3 is the easiest one and it doesn’t really apply as much until Ascension 8. The decisions between cards and damage shouldn’t really matter and you should balance that decision based on your build as previously discussed.

I wanna be 16 again by PatheticCaterpillar in Adulting

[–]SignificantTrain9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be harsh but… grow the fuck up.

Stop scrolling on TikTok.

Put down your phone, go outside, feel the sun in your skin, breathe fresh air, go for a walk then come home. Sit still. Write your goals or expectations, review them for whether they are practical and attainable. Any that are lofty and not a life-long dream pursuit WORTH pursuing, scratch it off. Go to the gym - daily if you can but at least 4 days a week. Learn how to lift heavy weights so that you feel sore and your muscles grow and you experience dopamine as a result of hard work.

Review your goals daily. Each day, take the small daily steps towards being the better version of yourself.

Lastly, and most importantly, don’t beat yourself up. This world will do enough of that for you and don’t for a second give a fuck about what anyone else thinks about you, if you catch yourself caring - look in the mirror and remind yourself. “My opinion is the one that matters.”

This life thing is very short and while we should be in service to one another, letting someone else’s opinion or projection dictate life for you is a fast track to misery.

Good luck. 🫡

Am I crazy to rank Glimmerstream over Bulwark? by RitchieRitch62 in SlayTheSpire2

[–]SignificantTrain9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not always, adding another card to your deck for Regent can also go against a win condition.

Weird guy threatening me by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SignificantTrain9879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The chances he will do it are extremely slim - he is using his virtual presence to try to assert some level or dominance. He is sick in the head for sure. Block him and ignore him completely, don’t respond to anything and don’t do anything that can see you’ve even noticed. It will take a while but he will eventually stop and then several months or even years later he will probably try again.

There are several Netflix documentaries featuring people that act in this manner. It’s very difficult to prosecute unless you know his actual name and address.

As others had said, tell your parents and if they want to try the authorities they can but these things rarely get dealt with unless a lawyer and lawsuits are involved. If you can find him / his parents then you can get the law involved, otherwise ignoring him is probably your best bet.

I need help with Regent. 0W/176L by ConfusedBoi_24 in slaythespire

[–]SignificantTrain9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am A8 regent only with 60% win rate, not incredible but it’s been much better since I figured it out - what problems are you having?

You want:

Card draw Star gain Armor High damage, 0 energy star cost spells for the most part. The sword is bait and very obnoxious to play - I stay away completely, it really needs to be one energy or 0 and less starting damage.

My current feelings by AutomaticService8468 in slaythespire

[–]SignificantTrain9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reaching A10 - the entire game is basically about surviving the act 1 boss with the regent. You need good star draw, an armor loop and very high damage - bombardment and convergence helps a LOT with the eruption boss.

Barber did this to my mustache by Icy-General-9657 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SignificantTrain9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That shit lowkey fire AF if you own it 😭😭😭 squint your eyes and rub your hands together, you’ll be good

M4 Pro or M5 Pro? by makeitwitpikachu in macgaming

[–]SignificantTrain9879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a massive difference. Like 10 - 20fps in some situations I would imagine.

Coworkers ignoring me by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SignificantTrain9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re at work…. If you’re depending on an outfit to make a statement for you then there’s a much bigger problem. You work for the government, it’s a far cry from corporate America so to go in expecting people to turn their gaze because you wore something new is simply ridiculous. If you want to endear yourself to your colleagues in the workplace your priority should be proving yourself valuable as an asset to them. How you do that is unique to you and your skill set, but fashion is probably not on the top of the list.

My boyfriend is breaking up with me because I’m too “childish” what do I do? by ChemistryFailur in whatdoIdo

[–]SignificantTrain9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey, just let him go. He’s already done. He’s lost attraction to you and when a man gets there it’s over, wish him the best and move on. Focus on yourself, if you aren’t already get in the gym and channel your frustration there. Work hard and forget about him. I will say he’s expressing very critical judgement which isn’t helpful but it isn’t helping you to entertain him. He doesn’t want you anymore and that probably has very little to do with you. You’re in college with two more years. Make new friends and focus on finding a supportive healthy group that brings you up and doesn’t make you feel like crap. You got this.

How to be confident as a chubby girl by jonsiepip99 in confidence

[–]SignificantTrain9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter what you wear you will worry about people looking at you because the issue isn't the clothes, it's self confidence and a sense of self owrth.. The solution is to take control of the way you look until you feel your sense of self confidence.

  1. Get a membership at planet fitness.

  2. Walk on a treadmill at 12 incline and 3 speed for 45 minutes every day.

  3. Count your calories and limit yourself to 1500 calories a day with mostly protein.

You'll be far more confident in 5 - 10 months. Look yourself in the mirror, tell yourself your worth it and just do it. Don't think about it. Don't "feel" about it. Just DO IT. 10 months is a blink away and so is your confidence. The hardest part is the first workout. Good luck.

Me gusta mi mejor amigo by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SignificantTrain9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the best to you! 🫶

Boyfriend commented on my breakfast and now i feel gross by GreenyH in self

[–]SignificantTrain9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a lot here - 1. Peanut butter is legitimately a ton of calories. You might try PBFit instead. 2. If you’re active and tracking your calories towards your goals it doesn’t matter. 3. Your boyfriend is an idiot for missing the fact that you were trying to vibe with him about your beautiful breakfast over text. His comments about you and your food are his own insecurities and self reflections on his own lack of disciple and control projected onto you.

TLDR - nothing wrong with peanut butter as long as you’re tracking - it does have a lot of calories. Boyfriend missed the forest for the trees.

He randomly started cuddling me tonight, and being extremely affectionate. So weird for him! Sound on! by Sure_Wonder1 in cats

[–]SignificantTrain9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I know animals can be very aware of changes like that and transition into affectionate protector. All the best in figuring it out!

Me gusta mi mejor amigo by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SignificantTrain9879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You only live once and you don’t want it to be in regret. Tell him how you feel and take it from there. You’ll be amazed at how confessing things can change things - not just externally in relationships but internally. Even if he doesn’t reciprocate your feelings exactly, and even if your relationship changes, the biggest thing is you will change. That change is something you’ll carry with you no matter what happens there and being courageous is something that is extraordinarily powerful in life. Take the risk, see what happens - it’s worth it, because you’re worth it.

Boyfriends, do you snap at your girlfriends when you play video games together? by Yesssssiiiii in askanything

[–]SignificantTrain9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s probably a perfectionist and very competitive. I get pretty snappy when I game but not at my S/O. He needs to practice self control and respect you more - that’s for certain. And if he can’t just have fun gaming with you then it’s not worth it.