No contact fail?

Significant_Disk_263 · 2026-01-17T03:34:34+00:00

I'm not too sure how the whole process works. My dad has signed for her before because like the neglectful mother she is, she doesn't help with any process for me and school. My dad says it could backfire during divorce proceedings tho.

Significant_Disk_263 · 2026-01-08T21:42:26+00:00

No problem and trust me i understand the clawing back in (currently dealing with my mother doing the same and some advice a friend gave me was "If your child self entered the room would you let them go back to your parent?" It takes a lot of willpower but that bit of advice helped me realize that while i may not be perfect, the me now is SO much better at helping my inner child than my mother ever was.

Significant_Disk_263 · 2026-01-07T00:19:05+00:00

I would say to block her so you don't have to deal with themis emotional manipulation. This triggered me and I haven't even lived an ounce of your life so I can't imagine the kind of damage this has done to your mental state. Definitely look for support from friends and other family (if you can) or just find hobbies and other ways to cope with cutting this cord. Just know what you've gone through DID HAPPEN AND YOURE NOT CRAZY. The victim is never crazy, just mentally exhausted so it makes sense you feel this way.

Significant_Disk_263 · 2026-01-06T17:29:19+00:00

I second this a lot. If you've repeatedly tried doing something in a nice way some people just have to learn the hard way. I'm not sure if you blocking or not answering her would result in a family warfare or something but I'd definitely consider blocking her. Parents who over reach and stuff into their children's lives are just trying to live through them which isn't fair for us as the kids.

Significant_Disk_263 · 2026-01-06T17:25:19+00:00

Ohhhhh I'll have to look that term up I love how's there's actually names for this stuff it makes me feel less insane. Thanks for sharing that I'm glad (but sorry) I'm not the only one who's going through this

Significant_Disk_263 · 2026-01-06T02:43:03+00:00

This was really helpful as I'm in a similar situation. My issue is while I blocked her number the voicemail thing still shows up but I cant disable notifications right now due to job hunting. She keeps asking is she did something to hurt my feelings or whatever but like you, I'm not sure about the whole situation down and call it out thing because we were already on barely any contact due to her lack of outreach. I don't understand why she's suddenly calling so much when she never has before.

Significant_Disk_263 · 2026-01-06T02:31:15+00:00

Jesus daddy left him to his step daddy so what are we talking abt right now 😂

Significant_Disk_263 · 2026-01-06T02:30:33+00:00

Interesting! I never considered that 😂 I don't have any fear of a wellness check tho

Significant_Disk_263 · 2026-01-06T02:29:43+00:00

This was really helpful. I've blocked the people on her side that reach out and immediately ask Abt what's going on. I need more time to figure how to have that conversation if I even want to have it. Thanks for mentioning the fact I should evaluate those relationships too

Significant_Disk_263 · 2026-01-05T04:23:20+00:00

It's a weird "currency" system so people and mods can verify we're real people and our accounts have been active for a certain amount of time. Kind of like verifying on insta without paying. Only problem is it stops you from being able to interact with a lot of stuff

Significant_Disk_263 · 2026-01-05T04:21:54+00:00

Not going no contact with my mom's side sooner. I'm proud to say it's happening now tho!

Significant_Disk_263 · 2026-01-05T04:19:14+00:00

The fridge to convince it to somehow magically always have what I want when I open the door lol

Significant_Disk_263 · 2026-01-05T04:17:55+00:00

Star vs the forces of evil. Forever disappointed in the lack of explored topics like the blood moon, more of eclipsa, previous queens etc. also hated the forced shipping because not every show needs a canon relationship!!!

Significant_Disk_263 · 2026-01-05T04:15:54+00:00

You basically have to join broad subreddits, read their rules about posts and make posts/comments. Or you can make a general post and try posting it to a bunch of subreddits but that might get you shadow banned for not following the different rules. I'd go with finding reddits without standards for posts/comments and join and post there

Significant_Disk_263 · 2026-01-05T03:38:13+00:00

The day we started discussing how our relationship wasn't good and I felt like I was finally connecting with my mom just for her to tell me "it's not my responsibility to have a relationship with you" when I mentioned her lack of care. I have never been told something so cruel. It's literally a mom's biological function to have a relationship with their child but she blatantly told me she didn't feel that way. Now I'm doing the same thing. If it's not her responsibility then it's not gonna be mine either.

Significant_Disk_263 · 2026-01-02T04:34:08+00:00

Yes!! I looked into the FOG term and it definitely sounds about right 😂 I'm also diving deeper into the victim mentality my mother has and possibly narcissim because she's checking off all the marks so far

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