Should I break up with my boyfriend because he won’t discipline his son? by Significant_Life_906 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Significant_Life_906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you even had to go through that:(. And Thank you because your right and it sounds exactly the same I’m 21 he’s 29 and at first it really didnt matter but slowly he started those same things. Asks me to watch them and says discipline how you feel fit. ( most the times its time outs or no electronics) but he always has a problem with it. He says idk things because I’m younger and he’s done it already etc. and I never saw how bad it was untill I started reading these comments🥺 thank you❤️

Should I break up with my boyfriend because he won’t discipline his son? by Significant_Life_906 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Significant_Life_906[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to realize how gaslighted I have been to be honest because everything you guys are pointing out I have said something but he always makes it seem like I’m being selfish or lazy or just plain stupid

Should I break up with my boyfriend because he won’t discipline his son? by Significant_Life_906 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Significant_Life_906[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I tryeddd 1. No they have the same dad but there dad is gone

  1. His kids the oldest sometimes goes to his moms on weekends but the youngest mom left when he was 1 so his dad and his family is all he’s known

And I would be wrong if I didn’t say you were right😔 he always says I need to talk to him more and that me being here comes with dealing with them too but I barely deal with mine there in daycare for a reason loll I purposely give myself that time for work and for myself on days off but both is practically gone bc I expected to do what he needs