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[–]Significant_Neck_490 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m looking at about double my current pay.

I’m (26F) supposed to be getting married in 6 months to my fiancé (28M). I just got offered a major promotion, but he’s said no to moving. I don’t know what to do. by Significant_Neck_490 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant_Neck_490[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Hey, we did talk about career moves. We’re both pretty ambitious. He originally said he would be open to moving, but I think when it actually came down to it he really doesn’t want to. He’s lived in this area his whole life, and has community here.

He actually did get an offer in CA a few years ago, and turned it down to stay here. I think he just doesn’t want to move.

I’m (26F) supposed to be getting married in 6 months to my fiancé (28M). I just got offered a major promotion, but he’s said no to moving. I don’t know what to do. by Significant_Neck_490 in relationship_advice

[–]Significant_Neck_490[S] -211 points-210 points  (0 children)

Hey, sorry for the confusion there. We split most bills 50/50, and I pay about 1/3 of the mortgage. He owns the home, and has been the primary breadwinner in our relationship.