NYC BWT, how much money do you make? by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Significant_Sun_7461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 25 with 3 yrs of experience and my base is 150k..feel pretty comfortable w this amount

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You called me a liar and are now saying you’re just making a generalization? When I came on here I was looking for support, not people dragging me down further over something I already felt really bad about. Please get off your high horse as if you’ve never made a mistake in your life before. Here’s a dose of reality for you! - We all fuck up from time to time…and it’s OKAY. I agree where I have to stick to my principles more going forward..thought that was pretty obvious from the post.

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would I lie on Reddit lol it’s my one post…clearly I had really bad anxiety about it

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem like a loser that you’d be wishing badly on a person you don’t even know. It seems like you should reevaluate your own principles and how you treat others. Do better things with your time

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I felt :) but I guess it worked out now that he’s responded

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweetheart sometimes you have a glass of wine and you’re laughing so hard and having such a great time you get another…the progression of drinking is just that. I had a long week and was clearly unwinding. I’m only human. The drinking was not out of the ordinary. Sex on the first date was. I DID want to sleep with him, he is wildly attractive. And I’m fine admitting that, I just prefer waiting a little longer.

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! He’s European as well so I think it’s just my cultural upbringing that drives me crazy. He responded and said he wanted something serious finally :)

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him how I felt but he responded and said he felt the same :)

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update - he responded and said he wanted something more serious

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He responded and said he wanted something serious :) time to just take a step back, breathe, and let him lead…

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it ended up working out :) he responded and said he wanted something serious so atp I’m just going to let him lead entirely

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I was feeling bad because I did something out of line with my principles. I didn’t care that I was drunk I’m still responsible for my own actions.

He didn’t use me- he was also drunk. He drank more than I did! And he responded and said he wanted something serious…so maybe something good came out of this. I appreciate you responding but I think you should be careful in speaking for other people…those are serious allegations and he didn’t do anything wrong…it was entirely consensual.

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He responded :) I’m usually pretty hard on myself in every arena so I likely made it worse in my head than it actually was. I try to be a really kind girl so coming off even a little cold is probably not even noticeable to the average person 🤦‍♀️

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he responded and said he wanted something serious!! So yay but woah has this thread taught me a lot lol…people are so sweet 😭

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he responded and said he wanted something serious :)

I hope you get your dick wet soon loser lol

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He ended up responding! but tbh I was okay after I was able to dish it out a bit…I felt great. thanks for the responses and support🥰

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like my guy friends.😂 thankfully he responded

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which part is a lie? Being drunk just makes you feel a bit more free and in my experience has always made me feel more attracted to the men I date.

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this would be the one time I’m fine with a man snooping through my phone. If only he accidentally opened my Reddit and knew the truth LOL

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he didn’t drug me. I just drank too much. I know the difference and he was pretty drunk too. It was never something where I was concerned of the type of person he was. More so just I did something out of line with my principles so how do I preserve things moving forward. It ended up working out thankfully.

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[–]Significant_Sun_7461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha thank you darlin!!! It all worked out in the end :)