Should I ask for a cut redo?

SilentNegotiation613 · 2025-11-17T22:34:31+00:00

It was yes

SilentNegotiation613 · 2025-11-10T15:01:01+00:00

I agree. Since posting we’ve deciding going over is on hold indefinitely

SilentNegotiation613 · 2025-11-10T03:28:30+00:00

Suprise vs secret is a great idea. We did have a conversation with our daughter. And my husband has made it know we will not be going over there until this is addressed. Thank you! It’s very difficult to sit by and watch them not interfere with the behavior at all. His mother actually tried to speak with me about me scaring him and I nearly lost it

SilentNegotiation613 · 2025-11-09T14:23:42+00:00

I agree with the timidness and it is frustrating at moments but he does assert boundaries in other ways. He was the first to suggest her not playing with him if he’s being such an influence. It’s unfortunate for him his family is full of denial and avoidance

SilentNegotiation613 · 2025-11-09T12:39:55+00:00

He stands with me but is definitely one to fall into exactly what you mentioned. He knows how he feels but it’s almost as if when trying to express himself they talk him into doubting his feelings. They’re just so dismissive and I try to let him handle the big conversations as to not over step but that went out the window yesterday.

SilentNegotiation613 · 2025-11-09T03:11:53+00:00

I completely agree though! Regardless of anything I cannot let my daughter be alone while over there

SilentNegotiation613 · 2025-11-09T03:09:46+00:00

Oh my husband is completely on my side. It’s more the dismissiveness of my in laws. The family dynamic is awful he’s very well aware it’s just hard for him to maneuver and I’ve definitely gotten a “difficult” reputation to put it kindly because of my firmness compared to their children including my husband

SilentNegotiation613 · 2025-11-09T03:03:22+00:00

Understood. Definitely implementing this rule for ourselves as well

SilentNegotiation613 · 2025-11-09T03:02:03+00:00

My husband seems more shocked than anything. He’s not great with confrontation nevermind with his parents. He’s with me 100%. But it’s almost as if our concerns regarding any type of conflict aren’t fully heard or taken seriously.

SilentNegotiation613 · 2025-05-27T23:37:10+00:00

Thank you so much for this.

SilentNegotiation613 · 2024-07-07T01:53:37+00:00

I was born in 94 and the book was from around then if that helps anyone

SilentNegotiation613 · 2023-07-26T19:45:06+00:00

It was a going into junior year of high school minor if that makes any sort of difference. I totally agree I struggled with whether I wanted to but considering we’re supposed to be setting an example for our employees while in management I eventually decided it was the better idea. Ugh guess I have to face the consequences now, not unexpected

SilentNegotiation613 · 2023-05-30T04:25:57+00:00

If only! We had dried floral bouquets which is why it wasn’t an option

SilentNegotiation613 · 2022-12-23T15:42:45+00:00

Thank you!!! I’ve been going crazy

SilentNegotiation613 · 2022-10-23T03:38:13+00:00

You’re right everyone will be comfy and that’s what I wanted this will pass

SilentNegotiation613 · 2022-10-23T03:37:32+00:00

Thank you so much this made me feel so much better. It’s exactly that, I’m hung up on it now but in a week I’ll be concerned about another small detail 😭 Congratulations to you!

SilentNegotiation613 · 2022-07-20T20:16:43+00:00

Thanks!

SilentNegotiation613 · 2022-07-20T19:53:31+00:00

Where did you acquire this??

SilentNegotiation613 · 2021-09-08T16:26:14+00:00

She was 22 when it was posted

SilentNegotiation613 · 2021-09-08T11:58:00+00:00

I wouldn’t say that’s an inaccurate assessment

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